Hey guys, so I'm new to the whole pua community and well I need some help. So in about I'm planning on going to a theme park with some guy friends. I'm a senior in highshool and was wondering if you guys could give me some good materal for opening 3-4 HB sets.

I've got a few already tell me what you think!

Me "hey woah those are some awesome earings" (touches them to make psyical contact.) "my friend is looking for a present for his gf/cousin/sister ect... and he told me to keep an eye open for something" "where did you get those at?"

After that I'm kinda at a loss as to what to say. My goal is to get the set to come hang out with me and my friends for the day.

Another one i have kinda plays off my stregnths

Me "hey i could i get your female oppenion on something?" "My friends and I were wonder, between a drummer ane guitarist which is sexier?" "I say drummer hands down but my friend here says no way."

Thats all i've got so far I could also use some negs and stuff to say after opening and negging! Like i said I'm new to all this any help would be great!

The second one is definitely better. The first one SUCKS!! LOL. You want to put yourself on a pedestal, not her lame earrings. In fact, I think that'd be a better opener. "Um.... (with a friendly smile) what the hell do you have hanging from your ears? Did you like lose a bet or something?"

I'll give you some I've used.

"Hey, do you know how many continents there are? Seven right? What are they? Europe? Why the fuck is Europe a continent?" Edit language appropriately.

"I've got to ask you something. If a guy tells you he's been told by people that he's good in bed, what's your reaction going to be? Lame right? Like who cares? If you've got to say that then you're obviously not interesting enough to actually get laid."

"Do you know the word "clot"? Is that like the most useless word cause I can only think of one possible use for that damn word."

Any random question can be an opener. Just smile, spit it out and remember, you're working on your game, not the girl in front of you.

Good luck.

Those are pretty good but I'm kinda at a loss as for what to say after the opener. I'm over my AA but after opening where do I take the conversation. It usally just gets awakard after the openers conversation dies out.

Any advice?

Well first off, if you're comfortable not using canned material . . . you're in a theme park! There are all kinds of situational openers you could make up on the spot.

Pretend you're lost and don't have a map, ask her where _____ is and then just continue with the interaction.

Or when you're getting off a roller coaster and you see a set getting off of it also, just go in high energy with something like "OMG wasn't that AWESOME!? High Five, we just survived the scariest coaster EVER!" or some BS like that, it really doesnt matter. There are endless opportunities at the theme park. Scrap the female opinion thing, it's garbage in this situation compared to all of the things you could open with.

But this is just a suggestion, as it's my style, I don't know if you'll like using it or not.

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Yeah I really like those, I'll be sure and keep my eyes open for good situations like that. Ok but say I go up to a set and ask "hey do you know where ______ is at?" after they say "its near ____" where do I take the conversation? Do I say something like "why don't you come with us!" or "could you show us where thats at"
I'm ok with opening just not so much after that.

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Oh man I know exactly where you're coming from, I still find I have that same problem from time to time. Day game can be a challenge sometimes with this but I have to tell you that the best advice I can give in one sentence is that it comes with practice, eventually you will get a feel for it and soon enough you'll realize you're a lot better than when you first started. Practice as much as you can

I like your idea to have them come with you, give it a try and see where it goes. Personally I'd throw in more conversation beforehand though. Maybe something like

Me: Hey! You guys walk around looking like you own the place. We have no map, and no idea how to find ____ roller coaster but we heard it's AWESOME. Any ideas?

Set: Haha yes we own it(i donno random girl bs response haha) yeah you can go blah blah blah.

M: Alright, sounds good. You guys must come here often to know your way around!

Set: Yeah we've been here like, a hundred times

M: Wow, so I bet you'd consider yourselves pretty adventurous then huh? I bet you are total troublemakers too!

S: *laugh* yeah we're the most adventurous ones here but we aren't troublemakers!

M: Yeah I can feel it, I just get that vibe you're probably plotting some master plan right now. I bet you gave us wrong directions so you can all laugh maniacally when me and my friends skip off in the wrong direction!

S: Yes we're evil geniuses.

M: Okay evil geniuses, give me your best villain laugh! Pretend like you just hatched your evil plan on the world. (donno, this actually sounds funny, might use this tonight haha. I made this up as a variation on telling a girl to give you her best animal noise or dance move when she asks for a cigarette).

S: *evil laughs*

M: I wasn't sure about you girls before, but you're alright. Ok my "so-called" adventurous girls, let's head over to that badass rollercoaster I asked about earlier. My friends and I are making today a party, you should join us.



There's a thousand different ways you can take a conversation, I just made up their responses(obviously favorable ones) and used a lot of things to get them to qualify and laugh. It's going to be different for each and every set you open, so just have fun with it. Just be high energy and show them how fun you are. Follow it up just like you said by trying to get them to bounce to a ride or whatever it is you're "looking for" and enjoy your new instant dates! haha.

Also, something I focused too much on when I was just starting out was the outcome. I thought I had to close every single set, and that attitude ended up being detrimental to my performance and even took a toll on how much fun I had because I was preoccupied with an outcome. Just have a good time, get some practice in, and if an interaction is going really well, give closing a shot. Hope this helped you out!

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Ben,

If you're new to pick-up I'd just focus on getting comfortable with using openers first. Use them to talk to anyone.

Develop your skill at having interesting, funny things to talk about. Then just apply that to women.

If you work on one thing and work on it well, you'll be a better PUA in the long run.