Why do I hear this so much on this site?

"There's this one girl....."

Tell me if I'm wrong, but does a PUA, I mean a real PUA think in terms of "this one girl"?

We think about game, right? We think about how our behavior will affect women en masse. We think about our social value and our position in society and the environment we're in.

Being a member of the forum for a while I've seen plenty of these type of questions. Its especially funny when you read stuff like...I'm dating a HB8 that's a dancer, a HB9 lifeguard, and another HB9 that's a model...BUT there is this one girl....

I'm not big on the one itis thing. Sure I have targets that I see on a regular basis that are tough and I would like to end up with. However, that doesn't stop me from continuing to do other game, and taking other women home. The problem I have with it is when you stop your whole world from turning for this one girl.

The Venusian Arts teaches us as a key attraction switch is to be non-needy and that in order to succeed more easily the outcome should be unimportant. It's in this sense that I am not an advocate for one itis. For every smart, funny, down to earth, and sexy girl there are a few more that can take her place in my book. No offense ladies, all is fair in love and war right?

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Jsmooth is a pimp.

I think that's the crux of it. If you're talking about "this one girl" you're needing "this one girl". A PUA should need for naught.