It's more having trouble ASKING. I've yet to even ask. If she says no, it's probably because I asked in an awkward way. It's about having trouble going from ordinary conversation to "hey wanna fuck?"

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How do you normally ASK for sex? I can tell you, no matter what your answer is, that verbally asking for sex is the least likely way to get a woman to have sex with you. Sex is a physical, in the moment act that requires no verbal communication once mutual attraction is established.

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Lol, I haven't asked for sex since I was a virgin.. ah good old days

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Well I haven't gotten anyone back to my place from a bar in ever. So I don't know. I usually just leave the money on the table.

At this point, I can't imagine girls being comfortable enough with me to have sex, and I don't think it has anything to do with the chance of accidentally getting pregnant.

I noticed tonight that all the other guys in the place were with girls and I was sitting by myself.

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I'm going to say this without the goal of being insulting. You have social issues that probably require a lot of professional help to get over. Personally, I don't think that pickup is for you just because of the things that you write and say. Everything is circular with you when it comes to how you sabotage yourself and if you can't see yourself in a positive way, how the fuck is any woman going to do it?

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What are my main social issues as you see them?

So I am supposed to give up on having sex? Sex just isn't for me? That seems like an awful life and not one that I would want to live.

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Anger issues, you seem paranoid at times, misogyny, can't connect with people, and you make up things in your head that aren't actually happening.If a blind person went to a driving school, is he going to say "So I am supposed to give up on getting my driver's license? Driving just isn't for me? That seems like an awful life and not one that I would want to live." It's because he doesn't have the qualities necessary to drive. So why would he keep asking questions on driving if that were not something that could help him get from place to place? He should be working with an alternate way of getting from place to place, but him driving himself isn't going to happen.

You can't connect with people because you are socially messed up and that's a huge problem when it comes to pickup. It doesn't mean that you can't get laid, but as you exist today pickup isn't for you to achieve that goal. You'd be better off learning how to meet people and trying not to get laid and some girl will eventually throw herself at you or have a friend put in a good word for you with a girl so that she wants to meet you.

To me, all the stories of you being creepy and at the same time having crazy, hateful, and delusional thoughts going through your head makes it a waste of time for us trying to coach you. We can't change your mental issues.

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That is YOUR opinion, yet at the same time, I could have brought a girl home from Hooters the other day when I was in a good mood.

Hateful = yes, especially when I'm drunk.

Paranoid = diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic.

But those are counseling issues, not PUA issues.

My issues are in basic socializing. There's 1000's of girls out there any given night.

One main issue I have is that I can't use my real name on FaceBook because I don't want people's first impressions of me to be something I did when I was younger. It would definitely drive people away.

I am not incapable of being vulnerable.

I think once I have my new 7.25" thick dick, I will be a new man with a new swagger of confidence.

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Just going around in Redstar circles now. W.e

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Are you sure? If you look closely, I haven't mentioned money or Lamborghini's in quite a while. In fact, I'm content with my old pickup.

And my posts are about 2000% less misogynistic than they were just two weeks ago.

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You always say that you could have, but you never do. You even talked about how you COULD HAVE brought home a girl to her house from a bar and gotten a blowjob, but as the story unfolded....you barely even talked to the girl. Why even bring up what you could have done? It's all fantasy if you didn't do it.
Dude, if you can't understand that your counseling issues are going to fuck up your success as a PUA. Being socially inept is probably the biggest problem any guy will have when it comes to getting laid. This means absolutely nothing to do when it comes to pickup. If you weren't so messed up socially, you'd realize that you have complete control of the first impression that you leave on people and by the time they got to your facebook page they'd give you the benefit of the doubt when it comes to something that you did years ago.You also don't don't handle adversity well. Didn't you tell another guy what you would do to him if it weren't illegal? It shows you do have an issue of being vulnerable.This is just ridiculous and your current dick size isn't the reason you have problems with women. Just like you not having a Lamborghini wasn't your problem with women. You have shit that is fucking up your head that is your problem with women...but like Mr. Assertive said, you're going in circles.

I actually feel bad for you and hope you get passed your shit, but helping you is fruitless until you have a mentally healthy gameplan on how to get over your issues.

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And I see you posting about nothing you've done ever. Show me all the "hot" girls you've been with in the past 6 months.

Don't handle adversity well? Have you ever broken your neck? Pretty sure I just got through 4 years of incarceration. You wouldn't last a week.

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Not my problem that you don't read my posts. However, I'll be happy to come to where you are and pull a hot girl in order to ease your pain and give you some one on one coaching for a fee.This sort of proves that you don't handle it well. You have a victim mentality. You are afraid to give people your real name on facebook because of your past your past is holding you back...and now you're trying to pretend that it has given you strength when it is part of your biggest weakness. No, you don't handle your adversity well and when you're called on it, you go on that attack. People who handle adversity well don't attack when faced with it.

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My major sticking point as I see it now, other than getting too drunk every time I go out is being openly sexual.

Best I can try to do is interject in other people's conversations because I always go out alone. People are usually unsure of me because I'm sitting there by myself. I'm always on the outside looking in.

In a bar full of people singing, dancing, and kissing, I will be sitting by myself.

Plus, you're talking about hiding from my past. That's a lot to have to explain to anyone. I don't think it should be the FIRST thing I tell them, but at some point I'm going to have to say...

"By the way, one time I spent 4 years in prison for _____________. I didn't really do it on purpose."

At which point, my social value would fall lower than it already was.

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Then why don't you fix these things if you know what's causing the problems instead of saying it all go away when you get your dick?

Plus, you're the one talking about hiding from your past, not me. IMO, you are using prison as an excuse to not move forward. There are plenty of guys that get out of jail and then get girls after committing terrible crimes. For some reason you don't have the ability to do the same.

No matter what, you are going to blame something for the problems that you have. You're going to say when you get something done, it'll take care of your problems. If you don't get a response that you like, you're going to attack. I said you need to come up with a healthy game plan to get your issues taken care of your issues so you can do pickup but for some reason, you are trying to resist that because you want to make shortcuts. You'd think that four years in prison would teach you some patience.

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