So I've read enough on here to know that you guys really hate Tyler and Julien from RSD, as well as Roosh V, and some others.

Are there any YouTubers that are worth watching?

Kezia Noble is kind of enjoyable because I can look at her boobs when she's talking..lol.

Honestly, I hate reading and playing on the computer because I have to do both all day for my work..

I'd like to try to learn as much as I can from kicking back and watching videos.

Thanks.

Or you can step out into the real world and do it yourself

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Some of the stuff I've gotten from videos and reading has been very useful in real-world situations.

You've been here for 3 years. Maybe it's time to change your way of doing it, don't you think?

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Yes. If you read my posts you'll see that I didn't even start trying to make anything happen until about a year ago.

I still can't get past approach anxiety and I can't make connections at a club when I go alone.

When I am introduced through friends it is pretty easy to start a conversation.

I can't force myself to approach a girl who I don't know, though.

I have a few plans. I went to my first Toastmasters meeting today. I also plan to take improv theatre classes.

What do you suggest I try differently, out in the real world? How can I force myself to approach more strangers?

Fix this. Quit telling yourself that you can't. Can't implies that it's impossible and it provides you with an excuse to keep yourself from ever approaching a girl that you don't know. Approach them and make it a goal to hold a flirtatious conversation for one minute and make them smile. If you can get them to smile, realize you are on your way to being unstoppable. Each approach that you make regardless of the result is going to lead you to be better with women.

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Times Two.

Mojo if a man needed to take improve classes to approach a woman we'd all either be dead or actors.

Go. Talk. To. A. Female.

Trust me, it's not that hard. I get that you're overcome by a crippling fear just thinking about it, but if you really want to improve, you need to start breaking barriers. I promise you you'll be proud of yourself once you go through with it.

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Thanks for this advice.

Well I went out last night not expecting anything because I had Mr. Assertive's "dry spell" post in my head.

I ended up meeting with some friends and one of them was pulling this girl he knew. Her friend was with her.

The girl this dude was pulling was telling me to talk to her friend. I didn't. I ended up following around another male friend trying to get involved in his conversations.

I finally got bored and realized that what I was doing was more awkward than just talking to the female so I went and talked to the female friend.

I forgot to make her smile and be flirtatious but I at least kept a conversation going using open-ended questions instead of Yes/No questions (which I learned from a Youtube video, lol). She wasn't very hot but she wasn't too bad either, so it was a start.

I think that's officially the first time I've walked up to a girl in a club and talked to her in a lonnngg time. Thanks for the encouragement.

Listen man you won't become an overnight sensation. It took me a couple of months to get decent and a few months to start really getting the hang of it. After that, you're just sharpening the knife so to speak

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Well done.

See the thing is nobody is good at first. When you start playing basketball you can't even hit the post, let alone to loop.
But if you want to ever get there, you need to start taking shots.

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Watching material to get the guts to approach is a terrible idea but most guys end up doing it.

The more time you spend reading and watching and all that other shit, the more mentally invested you become in perfecting your first approach; it changes from "talking to a stranger" which is awkward but easy, to "my first official approach as a PICK UP ARTIST!" lol. Ironically, reading/watching all of that material is actually counter productive. You've invested so much time into learning this stuff that you're going to be needy, reaction seeking, gamey, tryhard and incongruent.

Just relax and talk to girls. Go out, approach some girls, THEN learn from your mistakes by watching videos specifically related to problems you've been having (early ones for me were eye contact, escalation, holding conversations etc)

Here's an idea that actually works brilliantly, believe it or not: COCK BLOCK YOURSELF. Do not allow yourself to ask for any contact details of any of the first X amount of girls you approach (pick a number). You're allowed to go on instant dates and you're allowed to take their number/give yours if they're the ones asking... but otherwise, you're approaching them to work on social skills and never plan on seeing them again. It's a lot easier when you believe you'll never see them again, and it also works magic with helping you live for the moment, which is a huge part of pickup.

So yea, in short, stop worrying about material and just talk to some women.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

lol soon think watching more videos is the answer to your problem? Go get a door to door sales job......

Majikal, I've noticed a tendency on your part to mock and insult people, habitually.

Some people on here tell me difficult truths, and I can accept that, but I don't think my problems are something to laugh about or mock.

Also, I'd like you to show me your in-field footage, where you demonstrate the skills I am lacking.