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It could be a lot of things I really shouldn't have posted this here, for the context just isn't all the way there after re-reading, and these responses are 100% justified, but I think that is because I omitted so much info that would make my cringe worthy moves make more sense.
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So I met this girl through a group a friends, first time I seen her I paid her no mind (because I assumed she was somoneone GF) but some hours went by and I figured out she was single.
So on first meet, it took you HOURS to find out the chick was single. Keep in mind, your assumption was that she wasn't, with no evidence. So you meet a chick, no ring on her finger, no man on her arm, she isnt dropping that her bf is running late...and YOU are the one who says, hey, she has a bf, and takes HOURS to figure out that's wrong.
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So I got her ask her name n age and her instagram
So after HOURS, of cockblocking your own self, you decide, instagram and biometrics, instead of making a move.
AFTER FUCKING HOURS
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Might have been that day or the next I ended up liking about 5 of her pics on instagram. To my surprise she likes 5 of mine back, so I took that as something I should pursue, so in about a little less than 3 weeks or of first meeting her I ended up getting her phone number under the pretenses of seeing Kobe Bryant play a bit later in the year
Come on, you like FIVE of her photos?! First off, gay, no offense to homosexuals. Second, fuck, i wont even finish how this hour long cockblock turned into ask for her name and age and then liking her photos, was the worst move.
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To my surprise she likes 5 of mine back, so I took that as something I should pursue, so in about a little less than 3 weeks or of first meeting her I ended up getting her phone number under the pretenses of seeing Kobe Bryant play a bit later in the year. It's January when these plans are made. The game isn't until April, so between that time I would hit her up once a week and even got her something for Valentines day.
Now, I can keep quoting line by line, and ALL the sentences are just terrible moves.
There is no sign that this girl was ever interested. She didnt give you that sign. And I know u dont have anything that was omitted that would make anyone say "oh, that's understandable."
You are the gay friend. She didnt need to tell you we are just friends because everything was super platonic.
You friendzoned yourself on day 1 when you assumed she had a bf.
You friendzoned yourself when you asked her medical data.
You friendzones yourself when you liked her pictures instead of saying something
You fzd yourself when you invited her to a game 4 months away.
Your cringeworthy moves make no sense, and guess what, chicks flirt. Chicks flirt with their gay friends. Chicks flirt with their female friends.
Youve spent HOURS paying for this chicks time. Driving her to work. Listening to bs. I'm sorry, a guy who has A LITTLE experience, isnt making these mistakes. Maybe a day or 2, but MONTHS? This is the kinda post you expect from a guy coming here for the first time, not one 5 years in. This was a slow cooker for you? If this is NORMAL to you, or somethign youve had happen before...stop. Make a move early. There is no reason why this thread shouldnt have started with at least "so i met this chick with some friends, first night we flirted and kissed." Then I could understand or sympathize with some bad plays. But EVERY BLOODY play was the worst one. Snap yourself out of this denial, and CHANGE this shit.
I wont give you the benefit of the doubt like Arch is. You make every mistake in the book like this, yeah you suck with WOMEN. A LITTLE bit of experience? Yeah, you may hesitate on first night, take a number and text. No experience? Yeah, thats when you ask for instagram and like photos. Plays this bad, mean you havent learned anything.
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