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So, I've had this a few times where a girl is unsure about what she wants. For example asking a girl out and she's not sure if she wants to or not, or having been out with a girl, whether she wants to continue.
Im just not sure how to respond to her indecision. Should I encourage her to keep seeing me, so I have more of an opportunity to display what a great guy I am? Or should I blow her off because she's not sure. Perhaps I shouldn't be wasting my time with a girl who isn't 100% sure she wants to see me when there are plenty of others out the who would be.
I think each approach has elements that are both alpha and beta. Just curious on everyone's thoughts. Thanks
I think Jack already knows my answer to this. If you'd like but you have be okay with, play the long term game. Add her on social media or snapchat or whatever and live your life. Girls are under the radar stalkers. I've had girls who gave me the run around suddenly slide a message to me out of nowhere and blah blah blah. It usually happens when they see with a hotter girl
or I am doing something fun like learning piano or practicing sign language etc. Never know.
That's you're alternative but remember that this will probably take months and down the road in the year so it's best if you play the passive game and use her as a practice bot to use openers on. You don't have her and you understand you won't have her any time soon so you can basically throw out any openers without a care in the world.
CHAT
