Alright so I want to keep this story as brief as possible and need some as to what to text this girl

First day of class, girl walks in makes a question and I make a smart remark. She attempts to leave and I tell her I was just kidding.

The second week of class I tried talking to her and a girl who were sitting in a table with me during class but they were giving me one liners and focused on their work

Week three- She comes to class and makes a general question and this guy next to me answers, I chime in and we all start talking (mostly me and her) When we enter the class the guy then takes his seat and sits next to her. I ask for Instagram that day (should of asked for the number I know)

Week four of class.. We're all hanging outside of class and she walks by with a friend. We hadn't done the homework so I tell her to sit by me and work on the floor. I made small talk with her friend. When we get to the classroom she started to compliment my hair etc (I found it so odd) Then here's some stuff that went on during that class session. She threw a paper ball at me, kept saying my hair was beautiful and took a couple of pictures of me. So I took a pic of her and DMed it to her on Instagram (with a cheesy comment like hey you owe 5 dollars for taking a pic of me) The professor chimed in at one point and made a comment about us being very "giggly". Every once in a while the guy next to her would interrupt or try to ask her questions. I felt like he was cockblocking and sometimes it's wierd conversations because we sit in a square table (him being next to her, while I sit across) but there's no way around it.... After class, I made the mistake of waving bye to her instead of making physical contact. On my way out my friend said it seems like that girl likes you.

Week 5- I wasn't feeling well and threw up before going to class (I suffer from acid reflux). We usually chill outside the class if we come early. I spotted her sitting with some female friends but couldn't make sure if it was her because she was facing forward so I headed to sit down next to my classroom. I see the guy (the one who sits next to her) say hi awkwardly,sit down and plug in my headphones. She comes over and I feel her presence and she starts talking to the guy who sits next to us. Three minutes later the guy scoots over and starts talking to my friend and I just stay there. We walk in the classroom and I start belching. I said hi to her but kept choking up. So I headed to the bathroom. Now I started to feel anxious and when I headed back to class I couldn't contain myself. The professor went over some projects (when she does the girl puts her chair next to mines because we huddle up around the professor). I glanced at her a couple times while also belching and she kicked me at one point and says "sorry" I'm sure I gave her a nasty look and that was that. Later on, I grab her sketchbook and look at her work and told her she should redo it on the computer. The guy who sits next to us goes "hey I'll teach you!" She made no comment and I told her I would teach her if she gave me $5. She says yes and smiles. Then she tells the guy next to me that she doesn't want someone to do it for her. I then throw a paper ball at her. At one point she needed a glue gun and I kept playing with her when she tried to grab it. She wasn't as flirtatious etc that day. I also made some smart comments about the music she liked (I'm guessing it came across as assholish) and after class I walk to her with a gum wrapper and poked her ear. She laughed and I told her to put her number on my phone. This is where it gets worse, I look at my phone and told her that she didn't put her number in and stood still for a minute. I then go back to my seat and the guy next to us makes a short awkward convo with me. My plan that day was to stay after class because she always does and talk to her for a while. So she's stays for like 10 minutes and I try to joke around but I kept choking up and it just came across as wierd. I stayed in the class thinking she staying and then she says bye. 5 minutes later I grabbed my stuff and left feeling like a afc. I got her number Thursday, it's Sunday and I have no idea what to text her. Part of me still feels embrassed, some friends suggested to just text her normally. I'm trying to get her to chill with me one on one too.

My question is: wtf would you guys text a girl in a situation like this? Pretend like it didn't happen?

Whats interesting is that I saw this situation unfold almost exactly lol. Girl throwing paper balls at this guy and everything. And what is even more interesting, I saw this happening and knew this guy didnt have what it takes even though the girl was giving him all the right signs so I scooped in (sat next to her, i even asked the guy want to trade seats kinda knowing he would say no), talked to her for a bit, got her number and eventually took her out and ya.
So I recommend going straight to getting her out prompto. Stop being the friend. Either make her choose to go out with you or drop her..unless you want to be friends. Just let the pieces fall together, if you dont get a chance to ask her, or your too nervous next class, no worries just make some quick small talk over text letting her know its you, then ask her to hang out same day or next, if she denys then not looking good. But now you know if she is interested or not.

Thanks bro. I know for sure the guy next to me won't get with her. He tries to have convos with her but then they end silent, but he is part of why this situation is awkward. She did agree for me to help her with her art. Gonna text her now to let her get my #

She replied with helloo. Great.... One liner, she did say was horrible at texting.

So did she put her number in or nah? First you say she didn't but then you say you got it. Your post is very confusing but most of it is irrelevant either way.

If you're interested in her simply tell her to join you for a coffee after class. Or a drink. She obviously likes you at least to some degree, but you're taking a ridiculous amount of time to materialize anything.
And if you do flirt with her. Don't find school related excuses to hang out.
Hang out because you want to. And flirt.

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So did she put her number in or nah? First you say she didn't but then you say you got it. Your post is very confusing but most of it is irrelevant either way.

If you're interested in her simply tell her to join you for a coffee after class. Or a drink. She obviously likes you at least to some degree, but you're taking a ridiculous amount of time to materialize anything.
And if you do flirt with her. Don't find school related excuses to hang out.
Hang out because you want to. And flirt.[/quote

Sorry, usually when I write a long post I usually miss a word or two in a sentence. Yeah, she gave me her number. What I mean to say was that I thought she didn't put in her number so I just stood there and said you didn't give me your number lol. Well here's our exact text from last night.

Me: hey blank, it's insert my name
Her: helloo
Me: no wonder you said you're a bad texter. Is this how you usually reply?
Her: I was at work....
Me: *gets ready to throw paper ball at you*
Her:LMFAOOO
Me: You always start sh*t so you know I have to.
I have two questions for you
her: Yeah
Me: Promise to answer truthfully?
Her: (at this point I fell asleep) sorry I'm high but I'll try
Me: (haven't replied but I want to ask this) how do you know when you like someone?

Anyone else thinks that's a good question or should I just ask something else? I'm trying to figure out if likes me so I could then ask her to hang out. She's mentioned in class that she isn't good at texting and she did mention that she gets "high" from time to time in person.

What the fuck are you doing man, why is it taking you so long to ask her out? She already knows you like her.

I don't know what's with guys and trying to push "like" "love" and all this relationship shit with a girl they don't even know.

It took me 4 months of dating my gf before we even said we love each other.

Man, you're awkward and shy as fuck.

Your problem isn't her, it's you.

You take her much too seriously, you don't even know her well.

You're 23 I guess so you really need to abandon this scarcity mentality and start having fun and being more honest/direct.

She ain't gonna dislike you or like you because you man up, but you ain't gonna conquest her by playing this elementary school bullshit.

No offense OP but what are you? 12?
Seriously? "How do you know you like someone?" Dafuq is that shit.

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I read that reply here somewhere for someone and it worked. Well I got myself in a shithole. Anyways, just gonna call her reply as wrong and ask her to hang out based on my schedule. It's whatever at this point

Edit: She said shoot her a yeah and then said to shoot her a text. Sounds flaky.

So I made up some bs about being busy this week and she asked if I want to go tomorrow to the museum.

So go to the museum. And for the love of god flirt with that woman. Being shy will not do anything for you, ever.

It's easier said than done obviously but you gotta start somewhere. So start with her.

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For real? Lol

Pick a new target man.

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So here's what went on yesterday. We couldn't go to the museum, so she invited me over to her place to meet some friends later. We had some convo on the way there and some close moments... At one point she was close and I went in to kiss but she moved her head and sort of smiled. It was a little awkward for like three seconds... When we went inside we spent like a good two hours talking about sex, relationships, what we're looking for and why men and women can't be friends. I learned a lot about her personally. At one point her questioning me if my motive was to fuck her etc. I told her straight up that I don't make friends with women that I find attractive and move on etc. She said something about her changing her opinion of me.... But not in a good way. I also found out she's had sex with all her friends which was a bit of a turnoff but whatever. Later on we smoked and ate with her friends. As I left, I gave her a hug, thanked her and went on my way. I still want to fuck her but I'm not sure how to go on about a friends with benefits.

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