I was about to change my paradigm and becoming a total bad boy, but something weird happened:
I am currently organizing a surprise bday party for a really good friend of mine (shes a girl), and i spoke to a lot of her friends, and i always showed a kind atitude and non judjamental posture towards them.
Now it came to my ears that 2 of her girl friends have a crush on me..

So i dont have to be a bad boy after all, and tbh my kindness was a sort of mask, cuz i act kind to them but in reality i dont really give a shit about them...

So:
If i am a bad boy i might get some girls, i suppose, but if i am kind , use kino and be assertive (i have become a lot more assertive lately) i thinjk has more effect than being bad boy.

pls discuss

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Being a nice guy isn't an unattractive thing. Most guys want to be a bad boy because they see them getting girls while the nice guy isn't. The reason that nice guys have a hard time is because they tend to be pushovers and hide sexual attraction. It's possible to be a nice guy without displaying those unattractive qualities.

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Maybe the trick has to do with being kind but at the same time knowing to say "hell no" to a girl and being able to lead them instead of kneeling before them. what u guys think?

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IMO...there's no maybe to it.

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Like Jack, says, "there's no maybe to it".

I once had a girl tell me after sex that "she loved how I didn't bow down to her". It matters. A lot. you can still be a fun, chill guy and not kiss ass.

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Don't be a nice guy, be a good guy.
This pretty much sums it up.

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Yeah, girls and white knights will label you a bad boy regardless because you're able to say no to women. Girls probably think you're a bad boy with a good heart which is what i get all the time. I love it when girls come to me with like "shouldn't you treat women like XYZ" and then I go on and give a good ol "bad boy" tongue lashing.

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