| Ok i saw posts about getting you ex in bad again, ive had 4 months relationship with this girl, it was fun for both of us, but we didnt see each other so often so i started an argue, then apologized but she still broke up, it was kinda mutual that i accepted it acting cold. Ive have an intention to f close her again, so i wonder what should i do when i miss some of the steps for getting an ex back. All my other ex gfs have came back to me while i was doing nothing at all, but it took some of them like weeks, some of them montsh, some of them even a year or two. So the first step is to ignore her for 2 weeks, i did that, then i called her to ask her how she was, she was sad bcz of some private problems she had so we couldnt have a coffee then, after a week or so she was supposed to call me for a coffee, she didnt, and btw we live in different towns so we dont even see each other and we are students (low on cash) . And we started going to college again, she was kinda acting angry at first then i had just a little talk with her how we should be firends it should be fine, bla bla she was more comfy after that, then we had a coffee with collegues, we were alone, i kissed her lips, told her that was a mistake cause she turned away at first and then we kissed. She was posting some dumb love posts on fb after that) we were supposed to go on a coffee the next day but i said i cant so she said next friday, but when we started going on college again from the monday, she was kinda negging me dumb on purpose and i also negged her back but smiling like teasing, then the days before friday came i never mentioned the coffee date before, i called her she said that she had some meeting cause she is going the next week on a conference for 7 days, and we could go on a coffee when she comes back.
I know that my main mistake was that i didnt ignore her for long enough after the breakup, 2 weeks wasnt enough for sure, she still acts hard to get even too serious at some point. Should i now wait after she comes back and ask her for a coffee and game her again ? (by waiting i mean waiting with her, still im gaming other girls) Or should i ignore her and just tease her in person untill she shows more interest?
Ive missed the step of letting her call me first, and made a mistake, so what should i do now ?
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