There is a lot of gossip in this scene after I try my luck with 2 girls the third one will probably know and know I am a " player " that jumps from a girl to girl that something that burns you.

That's not how it works, my friend.

Women respect honesty, and the more honest and direct you are with women, the more they find you endearing (and their friends).

It is the "nice guy" who hides his intentions that comes off as the creepy stalker who gets the bad rep amongst a clique of girls.

You go after what you want, and you don't apologize for being a man. Girls want to fuck, too.

And if they are gossiping about you being a "player", that is very, very good news, haha. Women have a few weaknesses, and being competitive almost to the point of insanity is one of them.

If you are an emotionally centered, dominant male, women within a clique will not care if you fucked their friends, they'll still go after it. It's kind of fucked up, really. And the more sex you have, the more this "cologne" grows stronger, and they just pick up on it and want it. It's a really nice snowball effect. And of course you give yourself an even bigger advantage if you're fit, and if you know how to give a woman an orgasm on demand.

Women have a few weaknesses, and being competitive almost to the point of insanity is one of them.

You're right but also missing the point.

The problem here is not fucking two of them and then having a player reputation.

The problem here is getting rejected by two of them and then having a loser reputation.

it also means, that they don't want to hang up with somebody that got rejected by another female

Works fine for me. It's actually not what I do (I mostly invite them to something active like museums/expos (we have food expos in Rome-Italy like every other week..)) but I did it a couple of times and it worked as well. I mean, you know malls have cafeterias, and you generally move from a place to another, you're not tied to the mall. Plus, again, I live in Rome, going downtown for shopping means going through beautiful places/parks/churches, ruins, ecc, and is very romantic

Don't fuckin act like you're not gonna enter her pants just because the excuse you've chosen to meet wasn't epic. It actually matters very little where you go. abc of pickup is about them having fun, them having comfort (with you) and then escalating. A mall is good for this and gives countless opportunities to do something emotional, much more than lame cafeterias or wine bars.
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Did you even read op?? He said that there's like 100+ women in this salsa circle and he doesn't want to be considered a player. Or, to say it differently, he doesn't want to invite for a date 1/2 women, get rejected and then everybody in this circle will know that he's a loser without standards inviting every girl out.

So his best chance is to isolate a target with something that looks as little tryhard as possible and then escalate. You don't need fuckin shopping, just an excuse for something YOU do, and where she's company for the activity you've choose.

He hasn't been rejected yet.

TBeing a "nice guy" and inviting her out and then escalating will only tell the other girls in the social circle that he's gonna invite you out "shopping" and then try to fuck you.

It's a dishonest approach.

I kind of get your point and agree, but you're taking it much too seriously.

No woman will think you're going to the fuckin mall with her if you barely know each other to take and get clothing advice..it's a way like another to get to know.

I see it's worst than I thought tho, but you're overdramatizing it.

No woman will think you're going to the fuckin mall with her if you barely know each other to take and get clothing advice..it's a way like another to get to know.

Weren't you the one that said betas use comfort ?

Weren't you the one that said betas use comfort ?

Just calling it out how i see it Aqua. I remember you being the same guy that has to "really" get to know a girl before sex.

It's ironic how you can be direct in "chat" but indirect in person...

Sure, you make it work, but it's unnecessary work you have to put in when you can be throwing out flirtatious vibes from the beginning