Met this girl today while biking in Soho with my friend. She was with 3 of her girlfriends and we were approaching a stoplight on our bikes. She was at the corner smoking and cigarette. While I don't smoke at all I asked her if she can spare a cigarette. She looked at me for a minute and said yeah sure but only because your cute. I laughed and said thanks. We then we're chopping it up and my boy was talking to her other two friends. She had an accent and I asked her if she was from her because she sounded Australian.

She laughed and said no in from the UK. I said sweet chatting some more. Long story short she had to go so I asked for her number and said we should hangout. She said yeah sure lets do it.

Haven't texted her yet but I will in a bit to schedule a time to meet up tomorrow. My friend said she wants to fu$k me hahah he said he can tell. Either way I wanted to ask if we do end up meeting granted she gets back to me, how would you handle logistics for pulling and laying if that were to go down. I cannot bring her back to my apartment at the moment due to construction. My friend said if that were to go down and you can't go to her place then get her in the bathroom or anywhere in public (Alley, park, etc). Any help will be greatly appreciated.

What help do you need? your friend spelled it out for you already.

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Why not bring here to where you are staying during the construction?

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Made a meet up date with her on Tuesday. I told her (Sunday) that I will give her a call tomorrow (Monday). My issue now is that I need to reschedule with her for Thursday as I cannot meet tomorrow at all. I know this sounds bad but do you guys or girls reschedule dates and stuff? I cannot bring her here. I'm not even there and can't be until Sunday as per my landlord so I'm crashing with my sister until then and she definitely can't come here.

The best thing you can do when canceling is come armed with rescheduling options. Have a legit reason. Keep in mind she may have other options to 'fill' her Tuesday night.

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Thanks man. My issue is that I may still be able to meet up with her but I will find out for sure tomorrow morning for sure. Thing is... I told her Sunday via text that I will call her Monday (today). Will it be terrible to hold off on the phone call for tomorrow (Tuesday) instead until I find out if I can make this date or not? I hate making calls last minute but I would like to see if we can at least still make this happen.

Did a pre-date phone call this morning to get logistics together for meeting later. I left her a message. She text me back later this afternoon saying this...


Her: Hey! I hope you are okay after yesterday. I'm sorry to have wasted anyone's time in any way- but I want to be up front, I broke up with my boyfriend a couple weeks ago and don't think I would give you a fair shot. You seem lovely and we're very handsome and I'll probably kick myself over this but I don't want to waste your time at this moment. Maybe if you drive past me on a bike in a month or two it is meant to be

I didn't respond back but how would you guys handle this?

She's telling you ever-so-delicately "thanks but no thanks", put more directly, she's not interested. No need to say anything, an "Ok" would suffice.

Forgot to add....this isn't a shit test

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LOL thankfully you did. Common sense aint so common.

Thanks guys. Yeah I just replied back saying "Well I guess I'll keep riding around the block until I see you then." 1/100000 girls out there dude. All good man.

What was the point of saying that? You may have well told her that you were going to stalk her.

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Why do the pre-call? Weak. Assume attraction, assume the girl likes you enough to show up on the planed date.

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Never leave a voice message to a new girl unless you have a radio voice, lol. I'm guessing it was long and rambling, nervous sounding, and you totally turned her off.

Translation:

"You're handsome, but you are a beta...I'm looking for a dominant male. Buh-bye, don't bother responding."


Your reply:

"Cool." or none at all.

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This type of thinking doesn't make a lot of sense. Sometimes a guy isn't a girl's type without him being beta. Sometimes girls will give a guy her number so she doesn't have to reject him face-to-face. This whole alpha/beta thing is blown so out of proportion that it's just ridiculous. Sometimes you just have to accept that you WILL NOT get every girl even if she gives you her number. It's okay...just move on to the next girl.

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