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I'm currently using Tinder, which I know is mainly just used to stroke womens' egos. I don't want to message women saying they look beautiful or cute because I know that shit doesn't work ever. Every time, they would just reply thanks and were obviously not suddenly interested. I'm curious for those that actually still use Tinder to try to hook up with women...what is an example of a generic, yet effective first message you would send a match?
Also, what do you message women you match with that just ignore you? I'm sure that people are just going to tell me that it is impossible to get women who ignore you to reply, but there must be a way (which I know is different for each woman). There must be some general way that might make a woman be more willing to reply in a positive manner? I know negging sometimes works, because women will often reply to negative messages more than positive ones because they stir up their emotions more. I have no interest in negging women though.I just want to send a followup message that doesn't have negative, desperate asshole written all over it. I'm alright with moving onto other women if others ignore me because there are so many women that use Tinder. I'm just curious what a Tinder user's generic followup message would look like as well?
Your problem is that you're giving a compliment and expecting something back in return.
What are you expecting her to respond with saying she's beautiful?
"OMG! That's the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me! Take me here and now!"
???
Nah. Doesn't work like that.
Give a compliment because you want to make her feel good. Not because you're looking for her to say something back to give you an opportunity to "game her."
A 100% honest "God damn, you're the most beautiful thing I've ever seen! What's your name?" will get you way more satisfying results than any PUA bullshit.
I'll suggest you get good at flirting with girls in person before you waste a bunch of time on tinder.
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