I have had this happen multiple times... It's an interesting pattern I had not thought about before.

Any bar or club I have frequented 2+ nights a week at having dinner and a drink for a couple months or more. Without fail one of the girls that works there will get drunk either at the end of her shift, or on her off day and start hitting on me or coming onto me in some way.

Now, it's kind of entertaining, especially to me and everyone in the bar. But, it's interesting how I didn't notice anything from these girls until they were drinking.

So, whats with this, these girls were attracted before and just didn't give off IoI's until uninhibited or what? I guess attraction should be assumed unless disproven...

Many women are good at hiding their feelings when their working. I guess they're trying to be professional when their on the clock.

The point of this thread is?

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Mostly just an interesting observation of female behavior that I don't fully understand.

I kinda just acted nice but casual in situations like that. Had a image to maintain.

Hitting on people when drunk is hardly "female" behavior. It's human behavior.

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Wowwww alcohol lowers inhibitions ? Who would have thunk!

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What image do you have to maintain? Then you wonder why chicks think you're gay?

That a woman is more forward drunk than she is sober?

How about you.. Are you more likely to flirt with a girl that you find attractive when you're drunk or sober?

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LoL... When drinking I'm more likely to ditch girls.

I was up in Portland drinking and hitting bars with this beautician and her friends... All beauty industry girls. They were boring me so I ditched them to try to find a fun dance club. They were laughing when I ran into them later, because I kinda *surprise* ditched them by acting I was going to the bathroom.

When I drink, I just want to hit dance clubs and party!!! Heck, two of my main life goals are to party VIP in Ibiza and Monaco.

The image of a gentleman who doesn't take advantage of drunk chicks.

you sure you aren't gay ? or just a white knight...which is borderline gay ?

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"White Knight
A person (usually a male) who sees the typical maiden in distress, and believes that he can help her. A male version of the "mother figure" that some girls become."

Holy sh*t... Your right on with the White Knight thing, that perfectly describes me...

I was actually just this week thinking about trying to pull this friend of mines sister off her boyfriend. Both my friend and me don't like her boyfriend, and she has always liked me a bit, so I was thinking it was worth a shot.

But, yea... I wouldn't be interested in the girl if it wasn't for the fact her boyfriend isn't that pleasant. He's a heavy drinker without a pleasant personality who is kinda amplifying her insecurities.

Nearly every single girl I have ever liked or been involved with has had issues. In fact, the last girl I was sleeping with was a biker chick who is now in jail.


My older brother was kind of a hardcore white knight of a different type. Street brawler... He would get in dozens of fights a year, and beat up any guy he saw mistreat a girl in a bar or etc...

That White Knight pattern goes way back for me... The girls I was magnetically attracted to.

The cute black girl going to Juvie in a week for a year...

The girl with the jerk boyfriend whos dad I was friends with.

The pretty blond girl in the dorm who did lines of cocaine and has issues, boom, super attracted...

The girl who bitched out her friends (who were my friends) boom, attracted!

The beautician with issues the other girls called a "killjoy", boom, attracted! And, my friend was going to set me up with that girl, but I didn't stay in that city.


A cute girl with issues... I get super-magnetically attracted!

A cute girl who is happy, blah... Whatever.


I use to have this thought process when I was younger. *If a girl is happy, she doesn't need anyone...*


I wonder how to solve this... I mean, I realize now that all girls have some issues. Maybe if I believe that strongly enough ill find all girls attractive, lol...

And, the other day I was thinking about how my answer to a girls question "Whats your type?" is... "My type is the type that is all wrong for me!" LoL...

That seems more like an insecurity than being a white knight. A girl that needs you is less likely to leave you.

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I don't think so, I think it's somehow related to how I grew up with a somewhat abusive family situation. I was the only child of the stepmother of my older siblings.

I broke things off with a couple girls I was set up with after around a couple weeks, and the problem with both girls is they were too independent.

A girl that only has like a day, or a couple days a week with free time... That did not work for me. They liked me plenty, but I preferred no girl to having a girl with only like six hours a week of free time.

Jeeze, this one girl had full time school, a job, and her horses... Hard to fit a guy in there!