Hi guys, for introduction, I gotta say, I am new to this PUA thing. I read the game and more than half way done with Mystery Method. Well I have this problem right now, I hope you guys can shine some light for me. I'll try to be as detailed as possible with my situation.

Well theres this hb 8.5 in my class. I know nothing about her, just her name. We do not sit next to each other, although the class doesn't have assigned seats, we sit far from each other. The only time I sit next to her is in lab which is one day out of the 4 times I have class with her in a week. Its about 2 1/2 weeks into class now. At my first day in that class, I noticed her glipse at me from time to time. I took it as IOIs, so i defenitly marked her as my target. I didn't approach her for conversation or anything, I was too chicken sht. Anyways a few days later, me the hb and this other girl was assigned for a short group assignment. I walked to where my group was assigned and acted as I didn't know she was in my group. As I was standing there she came up to me and asked me if I am GX628 I was like yea, she intros herself. So me, her and the other girl sit down, facing each other in a circle. So the group exchanges work, her giving her essay to me and me giving my essay to the other girl. As the assignment comes to an end, I was just curious to see the essay of the other girls because she examined mine. So I asked the other girl to see her essay, and she polietly gives it to me. I was actually hoping the hb would ask for mine, but she didn't. Anyways since the group assignment was done we all just sat in silience after that. I felt liek such a chump since I was too chicken to start conversation, I still hate myself for being such a afc. Well there is this other girl sitting behind the hb in another group which I met in that class, and she looked at me so I just waved and said hi. THe hb quickly picked her head up from bordom and though I was trying to start conversation with her, but she quickly relized I was talking to the girl in back of her. The conversation was very short between me and the other classmate but I felt like I made the HB embarrased in a way.

So today, I had lab with her. So we sat next to each other. I was hoping while I was walking to my seat she would pick her head up so if we made eye contact I would say hi and intiate conversation from there. Unfortunely she didn't. So I just sat in my seat. I tried intiating small talk, but I came up with the most afc stuff to say. Like every time I get her attention to talk I would just freeze up and then the conversation just ends like that, as she doesn't even want to conversate with me. What I do notice is that, as soon as a sit down next to her she repeatly plays with her hair, I dunno if this is a ioi or she just does that cause shes bored in class. Anyways, when I did pass the attendance shheet to her knowning that she already signed it but I asked her if she signed it anyway, she replyed "O thanks I signed it already though, Smile". I have no idea if this girl is even intrested in conversating with me at alll, I really need some help from you guys. Also after class ends she just rushes out to leave, so I rarely have a chance to even talk to her. I never see her in the halls, or etc. I defenitly don't think this is a one-its, but I just can't get over myself if I don't try kicking it with this girl. Please help me guys!

Alright home cheese. The very first thing you're doing to fuck up is thinking that all this is about the girl. It's about you and you being interesting and comfortable with yourself and fun.

You're not going to like hearing this and chances are slim that you'll actually do it because right now you ARE more focused on the girl than your game, but you need to forget about her.

Do you have openers?

Do you know what you want in a girl (or girls) - besides someone who (most probably) accidentally glances at you across a crowded class?

Do you have cool stories about yourself?

Do you have a self image/avatar?

When I say "Do you have openers?" I don't mean canned crap. I mean, do you have stuff that you're curious about and want other people's opinions on? Let's say you're into BMX. Maybe you've got a friend who broke his nose? Would this chick date a guy with a broken nose? Ask her? "Hey, would you date a guy with a broken nose?" Listen to her opinion then state yours. It's even better if your opinion is different than hers because then it doesn't look like you're hitting on her. That'll make her wonder why you've got the confidence to state your own opinion. That will add value to your social image because you've got your own opinion and thoughts and you're not trying to pick her up? Why aren't you trying to pick her up? Because you don't need her because you're too fucking money? She's the one who's going to have to get your attention. She's going to have to be cool for you.

I've got a huge list of things that I look for in women. One of the biggest no-no's right off the bat is if a chick says "Ohmygod!" Total turn off. I'll tell a woman, "Oh... you're done." then walk away. Cause I know there are ten other chicks nearby that DON'T say that and will see that I've just blown this hot chick off. I set the rules. I determine who and what is attractive. Not her.

Your self image/avatar starts with style and clothing but it's more than that. It's WHO YOU PRESENT YOURSELF TO BE. If you're a tough guy, then that's your image. But push it to the limit. Get tattoos. Get piercings. Stand OUT!!! If you're unsure of what style you want, look around at the people in your world and identify someone who looks like they get laid a lot. Steal something from his avatar (not actually STEAL but get something similar). STAND OUT!