| Hello,
I am really excited to be a part of this forum and learn from others, while also trying to regain my abilities with women. First a little background.
I am a 31 year old attorney living in a VERY small town in the South. I have always had pretty decent luck with women and have slept with probably 60+. I did very good with women in high school and college and continue to have occasionally hot streaks. However, I have noticed in recent years that many of the girls I now desire either (1) reject me or (2) i hesitate and don't pursue them hard enough (likely for fear of rejection). When a girl shows me IOIs i am bulletproof and can totally seal the deal. However, if i instigate the interests, it seems to always get shot down.
I am not god's gift to women, but i am average-to-above-average-looking. I am 6'1 with, brown hair, green eyes and dark skin and weight about 230 (wouldn't hurt me to drop a few pounds). I dress very well and am a relatively good conversationalist.
These days, I feel as if i have a psychological block to going after HB 8-10's. Additionally, living in such a small town i am finding it very difficult to meet women socially. Many of the attractive girls in my geographical area are 7-10 years younger than me, and i have never really done well with younger women.
Since there is very little social life here, I have found myself relying a lot on Facebook to meet women, often adding totally random cuties than i have a lot of mutual friends. Usually, once they confirm my request, i send (most of them) a message a few days later and many times i get nothing in return. My facebook profile appears impressive (i think) but i am just having a hard time and need some guidance and a boost of confidence.
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