Not sure why this is in the relationship section of the forum.

The girl has a boyfriend which means, the eventual " What am i doing" moment will occur and she will pull back. Chasing her will only further push her away. Whatever him and her are going through isn't likely to work itself out if this is what she's doing, so its likely she'll rear her head in your life again if they have an issue, break up, or she just gets bored. Nothing left to do here but move on and date more available women.

It is the challenge you are attracted to; not so much the girl.

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Thanks... you guys are right im just going to let this go... Its not the "challenge" to be honest... I won this girl over... we have a sincere connection... but obv yeah shes figuring things out. Nothing to do but yeah let it go for now.

Yeah, chickening out might be the right thing.

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OP invite her over this weekend. And then whatever she says leave it at that. If she makes up excuses don't contact her again unless she comes back to you.

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*** NEW UPDATE ***

I ran into her last Thursday at a local bar (seriously I could not believe it was her). And played it super cool...

She ended up following me around the club and saw me being hit on by other girls...

Then, she ended up sitting down next to me and tell me she was super sorry and I just played it off like no big deal...

She then said and i quote "can you keep a secret?" I said yes... she said "I broke up with my Boyfriend... so thank you" and i said "no problem" haha.

Then I ended up walking away from her... she followed me and we ended up making out a bit away from her friends (she instigated the making out) and I ended up leaving the club and going home (which was my biggest mistake.. def should have pulled her right then and there).

She texted me in the morning "Morning! Sorry I was highly intoxicated last night.I don't like to do that but it has been an emotional few weeks for me. I hope you have a good day."

and I replyed "Crazy busy this morning! I enjoyed seeing you last night and think we should make it happen again soon... What r u doing this weekend"

She took forever and replied...

"Hi! Finally got the stuff I needed to get done. Going to grill out for dinner then bday party. Maybe boating tomorrow and baseball game Sunday"

How do I proceed from here?

Thanks Guys!

-Duke

You just don't get it.

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Help me understand. What should I do?

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Step #1. Why did you run? It was right there on your plate. Fearing possible conflict and hurt feelings the next day? A future? Babies?

Were does your mind go? You create your own undesirable factor, out of fear. Women can see right through that shit.

How many chances do you think you'll get?

Make her feel desired, then FOLLOW THROUGH, and satisfy her. (If you get that chance.)

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I have screwed up again yes... I 100% agree. But we have to move forward.

How do I make her feel desired at this point? She has stopped chasing me...

I text her yesterday and she did not respond...

How do I proceed from here? Let her chase me back and just not contact her anymore? Or make a bold move and show her I want her?

This is the last time I'm going to spoon feed you.

"My mind is full of such dirty thoughts today......and you are in all of them."

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and if she doesn't respond to this its done correct?

Then leave it on the back burner and pursue other options.

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Ok just one last thing, if i send the text "My mind is full of such dirty thoughts today......and you are in all of them." what is she going to respond with?

This girl obv knows I like her (weve hooked up and i have demonstrated 2 much interested again at this point) She did chase me back a little bit but wasn't begging to hangout with me... in fact she seemed busy in her last texts and now hasnt responded to my last one... I guess it isnt looking good again at this point but I have nothing to lose...