Ok, so there is this married Japanese woman that I did this event with at her home/private school last year. I kept it totally work related last year, but this year she wants me to do the event with her again. We met up today to talk about the event plans for the Halloween party next month. After that, she asked if I plan to go to any other Halloween parties and I said I will go to one other adult Halloween party. She said oh that sounds like so much fun and said, oh there will be alcohol there. She is a really sexy woman in her upper thirties, so I told her maybe after the Halloween party, we can drink some beers together and she said that sounds like a lot of fun? I later asked her if it is alright to drink with her at her home while her husband is there. She mentioned that he will be at home, but completely busy teaching some classes for like 2 hours. She also mentioned that he is open minded and a nice guy and not a jealous type. I realize she might literally have no sexual interest in me and most likely is only down to drink beer and talk as friends, but I really have attraction to this woman. She plans to pay me a little over one hundred US dollars to do this Halloween event with her, but I'm thinking maybe I could make a proposal for her...it sounds stupid so I probably won't though, but here it is:

Instead of her paying me money, I would do the event with her for no pay in cash, but for a discreet sexual favor like a blowjob or handjob? She is not a school I work for on a regular basis and she does not know where I work either. This is just a woman that I did an event with one time last year.

If I came to her with the angle that if she is tired and bored of her married life, being busy and stressed from family life, maybe we could have some fun together, but keep it on the down low between us...might this work? I have heard stories that this angle sometimes works.

She smiled at me a lot and really sounded interested in talking with me, aside from just being nice so I will help her with the Halloween event I mean.

She has kids, but her son will not come home until like 8pm or 9pm and although her daughter is younger and always there at the house, I could make the excuse that I don't want to drink beer with her in front of her daughter and suggest we drink together in another room?

It has always been a fantasy of mine to bang a lonely, horny housewife. It would be so amazing, but I want to ask the experts on here how they would pull it off in a situation like this?

Another idea I have is to talk her into having me over at her house earlier in the day while her husband is at work, where we would have a lot more time to drink and maybe do other things.

Would it be better to give her the proposal above, be direct and tell her what I want or just try to isolate her, drink with her and try to play it smooth and maybe get some action that way?

If she is married. Dont ever goto her house. Unless you like gambling with your life

I'm thinking hubby will figure out where that batch of chlamydia came from.

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I have been cured of all infections, so I no longer have chlamydia.

I have met her husband before. He is definitely not the type to react violently. I worry more about some legal issue.

I can try to invite her out drinking and see if she is willing to drink with me at a public park or somewhere where I can isolate her outside of her house.

Lol at the thread.. Why not just invite her to the party?

I wouldn't care much for the husband.

But that's just me.

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Always with the jokes. Hahahahhaa.

What is it with people being so highly invested in a woman they have no relationship with?

There are so many single women out there.

OP, I suggest you don't do the above and try very mildly escalating and seeing how receptive she is, but not too pushy unless you want rape / harassment charges.

Because almost every time I invite a woman I want to fuck to a party here in Japan, it is near impossible to fuck them. Japanese people aren't so open like Americans, where people can just take a woman into a stranger's bedroom and fuck them.

I will have trouble isolating her at a party since there are people everywhere and even if I try taking her somewhere after the party, they literally always give me some lame excuse like they are tired and they have to wake up early for work, blah blah.

For this reason, I would rather drink with her at her house while her husband is at work or just invite her out to drink with me somewhere alone.

Not that I'm condoning anything here but...

All women like to feel wanted, and they all like to have those feelings validated.

Just have your beers, isolate her, make a move.

Worst case, she'll be flattered and stick to her own moral compass. Or climb you like a rock wall.

There's only one way to find out.

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I get the feeling that all you do is get to the point of just wanting to have a sexual experience with women without trying to do the things to make you desirable to them. This woman is willing to have you over for drinks and the best thing that you can come up with is you'll work for free if she gives you a bj.

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I'm more than willing to drink and talk with her, but I also want to make sure that she doesn't friendzone me and forever see me as this beta male she can talk to when she wants a shoulder to cry on, guy to complain about life to, etc.

I'm willing to at least work for it, but I want to be clear about my intentions slowly but in a way that is careful. I know that drinking and just talking with her for a while is a good place to start. I can try some really light kino on her and see if she is receptive in a positive way. If things even feel the least bit awkward, I'm aborting the mission.

What the fucking fuck?!

Of course things'll get awkward, you're with a married women lol I suppose if she drops your pants and sucks your dick that wouldn't count as awkward?

You're afraid of rejection, and you count that if she MIGHT reject you then you'll bail, like a pussy.

Make the situation sexual as much as you can by accidentally touching her, talking about sex, etc. I don't know about other guys, but I like to create awkward situations on purpose just by openly talking about sex and her favorite positions. Don't be a wuss and try it.

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