Ive tanned, i go to the gym. This is how i look, it first i hated myself with no hair, but now it doesnt look so bad, but im thinking ive maybe just got used to it, because im not getting any replies from girls on dating sites with these pics.

No real success in real life either. So im not sure if im missing something here, any advice welcome

You don't look to bad buddy to be honest.

For success on dating sites. All of your pictures obviously count and so does your description and way that you message. So maybe there's a little something going wrong there.

Also in real life. You'll want to look at your past success rate and measure it up. How experienced you are with pick up and girls already ect... How much action you're actually taking to meet the girls that you want to fuck right now.

The pictures are terrible. If you want to have good responses, get away from the selfies. Get outside and have some pictures taken in natural light and make sure that you are dressed well and appropriate for whatever activity that the picture is supposed to be about.

If these are the pictures that you're using, your results are only going to be as good as the effort that you've put in. These pictures look like there was no effort at all.

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Woman here.

Drop the skinny jeans. Drop the tight shirts. A man with muscles doesn't need to show every vein sticking out. Same with a woman. If you're fit, it is obvious. This is one thing that irks me about gym guys. They wear Spandex tight shirts, shorts, and pants. No, just stop. It screams, "I'm looking for attention, please validate me!"

Second, stop with the selfies.

Ask a friend to take pictures of you. Playing a sport, in a bar, whatever.

A bit of what Jack and the person just above said.

I am considered quite muscular, I don't pose for the camera and showcase my body, I know generally it won't get the type of responses I am looking for.

However, a photo a friend took of me (while unaware) shirtless on a beach holding my cute puppy as i am looking elsewhere has garnered a lot of views and messages.

I wouldn't worry about the balding and instead up your style a bit potentially reflecting a look that would appeal to the type of women you're wanting to attract, granted it isn't a far cry from how you'd normally dress.

Certainly have a friend take the photos, and take at least 4 clear ones in a variety of contexts where a casual viewer may get a sense of the type of guy you are from each of the photos. Have at least 1 photo of you and some friends having a good time somewhere/being goofy. Smiling certainly couldn't hurt either.

the thing about it is firstly, i have no social life at present as all my friends are married with kids. So havent had a night out since before christmas. I tend to work, gym and relax at home. Ive taken to doing some things at night, swimming etc, but nothing i can get a picture of.

I also always shy away from people taking pics of me, as it can look reeally awful in the wrong lighting, i always look better in a selfie where i have control of the pic than someone else taking it, i think even seeing myself as the pic is taken on the screen helps me from having a forced or gormless look in the pic.

Put the camera on timer for 3 seconds.

You look good and you're balding is not an issue. Luckily for you your head looks great like that. But those pictures are absolutely horrible for dating websites.

Like Jack said, drop the selfies. Take some quality photos with quality lighting, preferably outdoors. Google how to pose for pictures if you're unsure what looks good how.

The reason you're not getting any hits is not your looks, but your pictures.

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Now you're making excuses. We can't make friends for you or give you a social life. We can't keep you from shying away.

If you want to get it done correctly, then take the initiative. Sob stories for why you can't get a proper picture is shouldn't be the way you want to go out.

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Getting a life will help you way more man. You'll actually meet girls in person too....

Thanks for the advice, im trying to work on my social life, im reading that models book and trying to impliment that. Hence why ive taken to getting out of the house at night and doing something. I'll continue to work on it.

Good man.

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1st shirt works on you, second looks like a hospital gown. But you've got the head and face for balding gracefully, lucky.