I'm in my buddy's wedding party. In his fiance's party there is a promiscuous girl who is generally not shy according to her.

I met her in a group and teased a bit but nothing special.

Then at a party she came up to me, grabbed my arm and said "hi _____"

I made some small talk and went and talked to others.

Next she was sitting with a bunch of strangers and I caught her ear and made light of the boring convo they were having. She laughed.

Next i had a conversation with her a half hour later and it went well. We were interrupted by a group and that is where she remained the rest of the night. I walked by once after she spilled a drink and asked if she could be brought anywhere and she laughed. I also snuck by her and grabbed her arm to head to the restroom.

Afterwards she told my buddy's gf that her mom said "i think he likes you" and she herself said "it is pretty obvious" that i was interested or something.

All i really did was bust her chops about the dry conversation at the party and such. But i did break into her social circle and catch her ear 3 times just to talk to her

Aside from initially tho, she didn't make an attempt to come over to me. Her friend said she was surprised that she came over to me and grabbed my arm, since she usually doesn't do that. She also said that she could be more shy because she knows i'm into her.

I'm best at the whole "i'm the prize" style and feel weird in a scenario like this, almost like my cards are shown. Should i just not give a fuck and plow on?

IMO, you're doing just fine. Being the prize doesn't mean that she has to chase you...you're still the seducer. The problem I see that you may be creating for yourself is that she knows that you like her and you are not acting. Not acting=no balls.

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You are doing great! That small detail at the end is something you can nip in the bud. You are going after her and you are doing all the right moves. You remind me of myself back in my college days where I would under the radar infiltrate a social circle and next thing you know, I'm off with my prize to isolation.


It's not that bad to have your cards shown. Women liked to be desired by men they like. They don't like men who are needy to keep chasing them. I think that's where you are confused. I lived and died by being the prize mentality back then, but you don't have to do all that if the girl is reciprocating. It's a mutual thing. You still have to seduce her because most girls won't just open their legs themselves (a few have done that to me, but that's a few). Keep pushing the interaction forward, you probably can get somewhere with this girl rather soon rather than making her chase you which can backfire.

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