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The fallacy in the girl chases you mentality is that they have to have something to catch. , the point will come when they realize that you have been influencing them with negative emotions. That leads to resentment and the inevitable loss which you can't recover from because at the end of the day you don't have any real value to her...and that's just with insecure women. Confident women won't fall for the shit you're talking about because they are absolutely sure of their self-worth and you trying to invalidate them about it will never go over.
Invalidating women doesn't have to mean hurting her self esteem. It just means not chasing her or being neediness.
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Tell the truth...what would you rather be: The guy that draws women in without effort and has a hard time getting rid of them or the guy that has to play games and has to fight to hold onto them when they don't want to play anymore?
I suppose if you have a hot body and physically fit then you wouldn't need to put in any effort, but if you don't have looks then you gotta do all you can. I'm just an average guy and I just try to play my game the way I see it. I can tell you, they chase after the guy that they can't figure out whether they like her or not. If she can tell that I definitely don't like her, then I suppose she will probably lost interest. But if she's not sure, she'll wonder.
If you've read anything about what I say about me, I've said on numerous occasions that I'm an average guy when it comes to looks, but I dress well, well groomed, and workout 4 times a week (things in my control). I've said on numerous occasions that uncertainty breeds attraction...so none of that is new to me. The reason that uncertainty works for me is because, and I hate to be cliche, I do have a real abundant mentality. You can have that mentality if girls like being around you and want to be around you. If girls like being around you and want to be around you while you present yourself as a sexual being then there's no reason that you will not be having sex with the women you are pursuing.
So the question you should be asking yourself is what is it that keeps women from actually liking you to the point that you need to invalidate them? If you figure that out you'll have no need to use this tactic.
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