Hello All,

I have approach anxiety; however, with alcohol in club I somehow approach girls or they like me and let me in without any words spoken.

When I start to dance with them, it take's 5 minutes for them to run away or ignore me.

I am shy by nature and I struggle to take that next like other guys in club do.

any help?

I live in London and still in last 6 years, no one night stand. I had sex but that was because girls were desperate for it.

Sounds to me like they are letting you in just to be nice and then struggling to find an exit.

Don't even bring up the sex part, you shouldn't even be thinking about that. Focus on opening game, search for AA in the forum.

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Aha, thanks man. It explains.

start with the basics bro. Look at each section, look at the stickies, and use the forum search button at the top!

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You approach anxiety translates into creepiness/timidness/insecurity in your frame. Those are vibes that aren't picked up on when you confidently instantly approach because you had a drink or two. That comes out a little later, lets say 3-5 minutes later. And thats when they make their exit. When you get the confidence to start approaching sober as well as after drinks, you'll have less of these experiences. Check out these links below, they'll help get you started.


Heres a few solid links to get you started:

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approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html

Let me know if you have any questions.

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