Maybe I should be a little more direct in my question: Do you believe that being combative with the people that are here to help you is going to get you closer to reaching your goals?

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Well so far I've heard people accuse me of being a liar, a virgin, and that I jerk off to PornHub on a Saturday night. I've also heard a guy tell me that I'm not ready to have sex, which is a pretty laughable thing to hear.

I hear loud and clear about all the narcissism and misogyny stuff and I think about it when I'm out. My posts from today were different than they were just two days ago.

How "tender" am I supposed to be? Am I supposed to cry to these girls that my parents didn't love me and I broke my neck? Am I supposed to tell them that my life has been very hard and demand that they love me? It doesn't really make sense to be vulnerable. I would rather be strong.

And then what happens to this vulnerability when we're in the bedroom and I'm smacking her ass? What happened there? Where did Dr. Phil go?

At this point, I'm not trying to extend arguments about posts I made yesterday, I'm trying to make new posts about what I did today, such as in my post labeled "Today."

Also, "someone" (hard to remember who because of all the responses that have been going on) told me to give compliments. That was genius and that is what I should do. I should get past all my hateful thoughts and give compliments, probably about their looks (not their ass), but maybe about something specific.

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Like I said, I can understand that you believe you are being attacked but a lot of that happens because of the words that you've used. I think you may actually be talking about me when it came to the guy that said you are not ready to have sex, which I didn't say...what I said is that you are not ready for pickup. I said that because your views will keep you from having success at it.

As for the vulnerability stuff and what you display of them...it's fine to show that things have an affect on you as long as you communicate that those things can't stop you. Being vulnerable and strong at the same time is a good thing to be.

My point of being involved in this thread at this point is to point out that you have to drop the whole fuck the world attitude. You've gotten a lot of good advice here and I watch you respond to the advice by pointing out what's wrong with everyone else. Even the quote I put in this post, you point out what's wrong with others and those are the people that you can't control. You can control yourself and you need to do a better job when you communicate with everyone else.

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Is this dude some sort of Redstar variation?

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Then how do you explain how I probably could have gotten my dick sucked by a hot girl tonight if I wasn't too "resentful" to give her a ride home.

All it takes is a few days to get the cobwebs out. I do believe that I'm the hottest guy in the down town of my city.

You will see that I improve every day. I have trouble distinguishing what is narcissism from what is healthy combativeness with women. Women LIKE combativeness. No woman, especially an attractive one, likes a man she can dominate or walk over. That's textbook from "The Mystery Method."

What about my post "Today." I thought it was good.

From now on, I'll try to post more on actual girls that I talk to rather than theory and issues I could be working out in counseling.

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How do you explain I could have won the lottery if I wasn't too resentful to buy a ticket?

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On one hand, you're the victim with the messed up neck and back and half his life in a wheelchair.

On the other hand, you're the best looking dude in your down town city area, you fuck the most girls, you've got crazy success and everything else.

You bitch about some unemployed half attractive chick not giving you the time of the day yet you fuck 9s and 10s at the snap of your fingers.

That is narcissism 200%.

"Probably" could have gotten your dick sucked? Are you saying that it happened or it could have happened?

I never said that a guy couldn't get laid while having a fucked up belief system. It's just how can you enjoy it if you are in it more for validating yourself than actually creating a positive connection? Even with this girl that you probably could have gotten to suck your dick is you validating yourself. Your statement about being the hottest guy in town is you validating yourself. Telling girls that you're rich is you validating yourself. You talking about all the things you can do that a woman can't is you validating yourself.

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Above all, you have been told to get Prozac and that is your first priority.

You are not qualified to prescribe psychiatric medication. I have prescriptions to 3 and I take them.

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What have you been diagnosed with? And what medications are you currently on?

Is this any of your business? Are you overestimating yourself?

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Like I said see a therapist. I'm not sure how it's helping you get combative with people who are clearly
Trying to steer you in the right direction .

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I'm still wondering why no one responds to my thread "Today," which is the only one of any actual substance.

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Because you can't sweep this under the rug.

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