From reading a variety of your posts, and the current way you treat your girlfriend, your "lack of experience" statement holds absolutely 0 credibility, hence no weight in any conversation regarding women or relationships.

First time sex anxiety ? Lol what ? And it only appears when you really like the girl ? Again what ? Lol

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Sorry void, but the fact you've never had sex on the first date means you lack experience with women.

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I'll try and gain some semblance of courage to make it through the day after your scathing assessment. In addition to cancelling the 6 couples coming in for therapy this week. Not sure how i'll break the news to them, I'll have to confer with my colleagues.

What's your problem?

Yes, I tend to not be hard and erected for long if I don't have a bigger connection with somebody.

The less I know somebody the more anxious I get.

I'm very hard and horny till we start sex and then I'm hit by anxiety.

It happens less and less with time (huge problem at 18-20, definitely smaller at 29, only occasionally happens), but with an HB9 I really like I wanted to avoid it and give/get more teasing for the next time.

Jesus christ, don't treat dating as a script. Real life ain't a gimmickry filled Mystery book.

Yes, I know your answer, and it's the right one "fix your anxiety problem", but then honestly? I do what I want with a woman, and having sex is not something I want to feel forced to do, but a choice of mine. We ain't animals, and I'm not making excuses.

If it's late and I have stuff to do the day after I go home. I'm not yet that desperate to treat sex like an holy grail. If she's disappointed by not being banged the first time that's a problem she will have to fix how she likes (even dating somebody else).

This sex rush really sounds sometimes like something people with very few options do.

Or extremely low luck.

Lmao. Guys the OP hasn't responded since the first page. Keep track of the topic. I just caught myself. Aqua make your own thread if you feel strongly

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LOL

I never said you weren't smart, or that you weren't successful. All I said was that not ever having sex on the first date with a woman means you lack experience there. That's it. It's not "scathing" nor said in anger.

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This is true. And some men are more sensitive than others.

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You've quite the thin skin.

Let's get back to the thread at hand.

I don't feel what you said as a problem to fix and I'm not really interested into opening a thread about it.

If you wanna answer my previous post (even with a PM) I would be more than interested into hearing your opinion otherwise let it die here.

You know what the majority of guys that have this problem are? Guys that jerk off to porn on a regular basis. I'm not saying that this as an insult or even to make you respond and defend yourself. Just be aware and if that happens to be something that you do partake in regularly...think about cutting back.

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What Jack said above ^.

Also you're right Aqua, dating isn't a script. That's why I said in a previous post to go with the flow. It's also why I said dragging it out is just as bad as forcing a rush.

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That's called "death grip" if I'm not mistaken, your penis is so used to your hand that it won't come other ways.

I do use to fap myself days from the date to lose it so death grip isn't really the problem and never really suffered.

Generally my late climax come from the fact that I'm much too much into giving pleasure and impressing the first time.

But I kind of fixed this from some time, I'll see what happens next times on the field