Thanks guys after reading your comments, i realized i was taking it very lightly.

Again because my friends who know her told me to stick through and get over it for 1 time.

But it's not going to be the same again.

And she's been insisting on marriage since a few months and meeting my family. LOL

She knows I'm stable (i come from a rich family which i'm very thankful of). And she is from not so well to do.

That's why she didn't take the jump for him (as he is a flight attendant).

Now i feel she seems like a G-Digger. Time to move on !

I'm no saint as well. I fuck other women when she's not in town but just ONS nothing more.

But her connection is emotional towards him.

Lol, yeah you guys should split

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UPDATE !

Her – My bf is going to call you. Expect it
Him – Good morning
Her – He is angry. He saw messages.
Him – So what? We didn’t say something like . Wow. Dear I know you for more than 6 years.
Her – He is hyper and I don’t know why. Sorry for that. I am trying to explain that we are friends. Doesn’t believe.
Him – I will not pick up really don’t need drama and cuz I respect you
Her – Thank you. He will call from my number
Him – It was him. That’s good that I was sleeping
Him – Are we gonna meet today. Or you cant
Her – No. Big drama. Cannot
Him – Will call you now
Her – No No. Cannot speak
Him – What happened for all of that dear. Really. How people still with minds
Her – Very damn jealous. Too much
Him – Fuck really
Her – Really upset. Feel like packing and back home
Him – Dear don’t hide anything. We are just talking. Did not do anything bad
Her – He doesn’t believe
Him – Let him not believe. If he is with that mind.
Her – Fuck it he doesn’t believe
Him – If he does not believe in things like that. What he gonna do in big things
Her – Very tired. Mind is drained off
Him – No No. Enjoy your day. Go to pool. Talk to your mom
Her – Thanks

So I sat down with her to talk about break up and she showed me this conversation.
I asked her a few questions: Why am I jealous? Someone wants to bang my gf and I am the one getting jealous. She said it doesn’t mean that.
(Her English is not that good. She is Russian. He is Turkish. His English is shit as well)

She asked for 1 last chance. She said if you ever have a doubt again or you find me speaking to him or any other guy, you can dump me. I don’t want our relationship to go down because of this guy. I want him as a friend as he has helped me a lot in the past. But I don’t care about it anymore. I want my future with you. And I don’t need to be friends with him.
I asked her why a girl’s name for his number.
Her response – I was scared. Because he has drunk texted twice her how much he likes her etc.

But now she has blocked him from all social media and phone. Her last message to him. “I don’t want to speak to you anymore as it hurting my relationship with my bf. Good luck with your life.”

And apparently he is moving away from the country for good.

I told her you can stay here, but im not 100% into you anymore, unless you prove it to me (I don’t know how but you got to do something to fix it) because you’re too dumb to understand that he wants to bang you and you are leading him or you’re just acting naïve.

I really thought she was the one. It hurts.

Now again i'm thinking is it a good reason to dump her ?

Apologize for so many questions.

I mean come on man...their first conversation was pretty serious and in depth for "harmless flirting." Are you not seeing where your girl is probably fuckin this guy? But you're cheating on her she's cheating on you...do what you want

Please don't marry this girl. Or at least sign a prenup. Which I highly encourage all guys to do since you never know shit like this happens and she gets stressed out and freaks out

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Did you know that they were planning to meet up again? I'd be willing to bet that they have met up far more than the one time since February.

Look OP, she's played a very sneaky game when it has come to this guy. IMO, anyone that is being that sneaky about hiding phone numbers for something that is supposed to be an innocent friendship is not worth it. If he has been a friend for six years and nothing has happened to him, why does she feel the need to hide how she communicates with him? Her words and actions don't match.

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They were supposed to meet day before yesterday.
That's when I got curious. I knew they were friends. I was going out for dinner with my sister and she was going to meet him at the mall after I was going to pick her up and go for drinks.
But she canceled on him. I read that message.
She texted him - it's too late to meet now.
He called twice she cut his calls. (Call log)

Next day morning (yesterday) I read all the Facebook messages

And today i saw the last convo - They were not going to meet today.

I'm 100% sure she hasn't met him more than once in Feb.

She works as a fitness instructor and most of her classes are in the building gym. And she immediately calls me once she finishes her class.
She teaches at a studio where I drop her on my way to work.

Bro, everyone is telling you the truth. It looks like she is committed to you because she cut out this guy, but seriously, what if anyone of our caliber was gaming your girl? She just sounds like she is realizing what she is going to lose but when she hertz comfortable she will entertain other men. There's only one way to find out but from personal experience I am telling you you made a bad choice and she isn't an honest person. You aren't either though. I was rooting for you originally but if you're cheating, then what's the point of being a hypocrite? Emotional affair. Sexual affair. They are both cheating. You should dump her because neither of you are healthy for each other.

I'm just gonna quote myself here:
Also this:
Have some common sense.

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Bottom line:

She wants him more than you and would trade you up given the opportunity. You're the 'safe option' for her. Use her only for sex and start looking for a new girl to build a relationship with.

No, that's not necessarily true. How I read it is that she's just being selfish. She wants her boyfriend but also wanted something on the side. Soon as she was confronted, she started negotiating in order to keep him. Doesn't mean that she wants the other guy more.

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Yeah, she clearly isn't as invested in this guy. We can't know the clear motive of why she was engaging in this behavior but we can see that if it continued, it would have ended up that she would have met with him, possibly thwarted some of his advances, and eventually she may have ended it if she thought he was a good catch. She is clearly telling him the conditions for her to see him as a potential partner. Something about him not being crazy or something. I can't remember. It spells trouble for the OP because she should have kept telling him fuck off but she's starting to budge. It's not the worst thing, but we can see the fantasy he is trying to paint in her head, and she is starting to buy into it.

I agree with this analysis.

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