Last weekend i was going out with my friends to a night club in Berlin. We had a lot o fun there and after a while i saw this very beautiful girl at the outdoor area standing alone. I walked up to her and we had a really good energetic conversation. We started laughing toghter, having long eye and body contact. All signs of attraction were there. Then her friends came and went with her to dance floor. I told her that i have to go toilet and that i will find her later. But before i left she gave me a big hug.

Ok now comes the part that i dont really understand. I saw her 1 hour later, she was standing with her friends smoking a cigarrete outside .I talked to her and i soon realized that she wasnt really paying attetion to me, she was chatting with her friends , half ignoring me . I talked loudly with confident and came up with interesting stuff but it didnt help. I lost her , and then i felt not being part of the group.So i left telling them that im going to my friends.

I didnt give up , i saw her again, walked towards her and talked. But at this point she was rejecting me, not showing interest and the body language was very cold. That was so confusing for me that i didnt want to hold the conversation with her so i left.

So here is the question:

Why did she change her mood so quickly and was not attracted to me more after we had such a good connection?

What could i have done better to win her back?

LOL. You really think she was waiting for your ass an hour later. Maybe her ex hit her up, maybe she got into a bad mood. Alcohol does that sometimes. Let it go. Next time follow up and don't wait an hour.

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She didn't change her mood "quickly". You were in a high energy environment where people drink, laugh, dance and party. You didn't experience something abnormal. You experienced something normal.
What you could have done better is not put yourself in a position where you have to win her back. That's called prevention. Best cure for a disease is preventing it in the first place. That's general advice.

Regarding clubs, don't take them too seriously. Some things you can't control. And unless you're ready to leave with a girl wrapped around you arm in 15 minutes time, don't stress.
Do it for fun if you wish, but don't have any expectations one hour later, lol.
It's dynamic and fast paced. Strike while the iron is hot or don't at all.

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A hour is not quick when you're at a club talking to a girl who you don't know from a hole on the wall, that doesn't know you or anything about you, who is also ingesting hormone altering chemicals(alcohol and cigarettes) while surrounded by loud music, and also being approach by many other men the same night.

Thinking a girl that you didn't close with is suppose to still have the exact same height of emotion she had an hour prior to meeting you is a bit ridicules.

Women do not put nearly as much weight into simple interactions the way we do. To you that whole "hug" and "talk" meant something. It probably doesn't happen to you often. But to her it meant absolutely nothing. She's hugging and hanging with her friends all night long. And if she's attractive she has a wide social circle of people who she hugs that aren't there as well.

You become more and more memorable the more you escalate. This was nothing to no one except you in the fantasy world you choose to live in that evening. Its over. Don't make too much of it. Go out, try again, and actual try and close this time.

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