Hey guys,

This won't be too long.
Been feeling kinda down lately maybe that's the reason idk.

But I got this girls number from the grocery couple weeks ago.. we managed to go out once last week or so. We made out and that was that..my work called me had to leave early..

Anyways so I asked her out twice more for coffee, first time she said too busy with work won't get off till late. Now this time, I asked if she wanted to go for coffee tomorrow (saturday) and she said "Thanks but I'm busy going on a date"
Lmao..kinda figured she might be busy since being satday

I mean I think it's funny she said that idk if she realizes I was asking her out on a date or what lol

But ya, so what gives? I haven't said anything back, it's like she is trying to get me to chase her or something.

My question is, since I asked for coffee so many times what to say next without being predictable?

Idk any tips I guess for next time I see her would be nice.

Kinda feel like I'll be wasting my time asking her out and her denying everything escalation attempt or something since she basically told me she was going on a date. Or no?

Anybody else get in situation like this?

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She hasn't flat out said she just doesn't want to, and has had reasons that she can't see you. I would be concerned about how she views you though, since she openly told you she is going on a date. She could have just said she was busy that night...

I would say if you still want to pursue her, try asking for a time when she would be available to meet up, instead of making suggestions that have the potential of being shot down.

Personally, I would stop pursuing it until I had a better understanding of how she viewed me and what she wanted. Because she is aware that you are trying to make plans with her, but is doing nothing to assist you in making plans. She could say something like "blah blah i have plans, sorry, but we can do something later?"
but she doesn't, I assume she is leaving you high and dry.

She clearly knows you are interested in her, if she were even slightly interested in you, she would make an effort. She's not doing that.

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Ya I probably would have texted her again if it weren't for you meddling kids.
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Like she did mention she was seeing someone,

I think she said guy was arena football.

Neither does it or did it bother me though.

Doggonit. She would have been nice.

Something tells me ill see her again.

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You'd be surprised. Lol
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Anyways thanks again, did clarify things.

I've always considered these sort of like shit tests. May be wrong in that. But there's really no reason for her to specify the reason is a date, when you have a non platonic relationship. She could have easily just said she was busy.

It's an expression of disinterest. When women are interested in you, they don't want to do something that makes you believe that they are not. I'm not saying that they don't date other guys if they are interested, they just don't announce it.

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I have never had a girl who was interested in me bring up another dude. Even my fuck buddies nip that shit in the bud. They are like oh yeah you don't care. Never mind ...

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