so went out with a girl (30) I met online on a dinner date, had a good time; kept her laughing all the time. Dinner was fun.

she splits the bill with me (without me asking) and invites me home to her appartement. We arrive there, she lights up the candles. She puts on some of those yoga pants and makes me a drink.

and then...

nothing!

she goes and sits a mile away in the couch, i move a little closer, but she posts herself in a defensive position or moves a little further away. I propose to give her a footmassage, but she declines. An hour later I leave.

I figured I must have done something wrong along the way (there was no kino in the restaurant either, (she was very no-touchy). Anyway I was nexting this girl
and then she starts texting me about how she had a great time and next day she's texting like beserk again.

Is this some kind of shit test? did i pass it and is it a good setup for a day 2 or am I just orbitting? I doesn't feel like orbitting since she's actually putting in a lot of effort, but it is the first time someone invites me to their appartement and it doesn't end in an f- or k-close...

Next time a woman goes ASD on you like that just ask, "are you nervous?" She'll answer with some sort of blah blah blah answer. Then you ask why she's sitting so far away, but what you are doing is challenging her not to seem nervous and act like a normal person. If she continues being standoffish, politely tell her that you're going to leave and then leave.

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Chillax Bro. Take a deep breath. Overthinking just creates problems that aren't even there. Some girls just have a concrete, no touchy touchy below the waist rule on the 1st date.

Do it again. Maintain a better sexual frame. Push a little further.

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In all seriousness OP. It's a like a rabid cat, you just stay comfortable with yourself. Let her come to terms with what she is feeling. Like jack said, all you're doing is challenging. The key is not to pout about it. My personal favorite is I won't bite. And pat the area where you want her to sit. After you ask if she if she is nervous.

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