That's the point of the post though, right? He froze her out, and she did re initiate contact.

I wasn't responding to the point of the post. I was responding to your logic into making multiple efforts and hoping for a recovery as opposed to deleting a number. It's a bad habit.

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I think he means more of a pinging. I don't necessarily think he means trying everyday or something along those lines. You never know when one of those days she will magically be like . It's like me pinging every few days. I get a bite, throw in a little attraction and keep that going for weeks. It's not necessarily time consuming when you aren't really doing it all day or everyday. It's like spending 5 minutes out of your whole day if she does respond positively. Its no different when I send a mass text. Takes a few minutes and then you move on with your life

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I really don't get that mentality. Someone that ignores me when I get to the point, then there is no reason to ping an attention seeker, IMO. You're giving them exactly what they want while hoping for a lucky break. Sure, some guys will get lucky every once in a while...but the reality is that you'd have far more success just by bringing a new girl into the mix. It's a bad habit to get into.

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That ^.

It also encourages that poisonous "I got nothing to lose mentallty"

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I'm not hoping. Send it and forget it situation. I'm never expecting anything so I don't lose anything. If I try nothing I get nothing. A mass text is just a mass text. Don't get me wrong, you're right on some level. But I think you get to a point when you know it's a lost cause and can quickly nip it in the bud. That's the key. You know when she's just flapping her gum so you're just like automatically like "not worth it" . You usually find out when you try to set up a meet up. That's when you know it's done. But I've left girls numbers in my phone and tried months down the road. Usually pans out. Women's emotions change like the seasons

Probably not the best route for people starting out, but it's worked for me here and there. It's passive income.
Kind of like online dating. Just passive by setting up the profile, I get a bite and we get ball rolling.

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So you're saying that you've sent text messages months down the line and those texts USUALLY pan out? On a more mathematical level...it would be that the girls who have ignored your request for a date over half of them that ignored you will accept it a few months later? If that's the case, I stand corrected and defer to your knowledge on that because I don't know how to pull it off.

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Thats what I'm exactly saying. I'm saying don't delete the number. Try later in the year. Then again I have snap chat and social media at my disposal. Girls are always on it and if they see you in a different light during those those outlets, you never know. If these girls start seeing me with random chicks, picking up new hobbies, having some depth. They will be like " wait what ".


I agree that those starting out shouldn't rely on it but there's always exception to the rule. Kind of like when you guys argue that the guy should ditch the women that friendZone them. I just figured why not tell the guy to embrace the friendZone and infiltrate her social circle if it's full of chicks. But it depends on the level of investment of the OP at the time.

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This is probably the only way that this makes any sense if you're going to contact a girl after being ignored/rejected. Probably a detail that shouldn't be skipped over if you want to try getting the girl at a later date.

Too much extra for me, but it is valid thinking.

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UPDATE:she kept saying she missed me and stuff like that so i told her to come over.she said she was busy.i had a gut feeling that she was lying so i told her i don't like people who play games.i was pissed off so i hung up the phone on her.i haven't contacted her since then and she hasn't contacted me too.it has been days.

Yeah ignore my advice. That was just between Jack and I. My advice won't help you now or down the road. Your reactive response has essentially closed her legs.

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So you'd reacted "pissed off" because she didn't meet your expectation of agreeing to hangout, in spite of your repeated attempts to get her out.

Is it her or yourself you should feel "pissed off" towards? She's really not doing anything unexpected, nor is she actually doing anything wrong (other than not really being interested in you beyond some fluff texts that feed her need for desire).

You're trying to have someone fill your need for intimacy and connection who really isn't interested in doing so. So, why not take the other posters' advice in moving onto cool women who ARE actually responsive to you and are wanting to help you meet those needs?

This isn't her issue, its YOURS. Either continue doing this or move on.

OP you always have essentially the same topic.

You hold girls that are not interested in you to ridiculous expectations.

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It is. And trying "later in the year" is the way to go. months and months.

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