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Perspective is good to have, but without the confidence to back it up it won't do much.
To be that guy you actually have to know you can ruin her sex life. And to know that, you have to have ruined a few sex lives until that point.
Some things you need to live - and earn - before you can attribute them to yourself.
On point.
My friend saw this movie Hitch, there was a scene where Smith's character would purposely give $10 do random girl in a bar, tell her his order and turn his back. The girl went after him telling him she's not a waitress here, Smith responded in a best way possible saying how otherwise could he drive her from all the guys surrounding her.
So friend of mine tried the exactly same thing with a stranger in a club. Result was ridiculous, she just took the money and turned her back.
Now, I knew this wasn't going to work because he lacks the qualities you guys mentioned above.