hello everyone. im not completely sure where this should be posted. like the title reads, im completely clueless. ill explain: i dont know how i can make a girl hang out with me. i really believe ill get rejected because im ugly. so i dont even try to ask. and that is what holds me back. how should i handle this? how do you get girls to hang out with you? when i read success stories, i assume the OP is just handsome and thats why the girls are willing to hang out. any help?

Too many things to say, start here:

https://www.amazon.com/Mystery-Method-B ... 0312360118

Start with fixing what's fixable... Why are you ugly? what can't you fix?

@aqualol ive done my research, im quite familiar with the basics. i am more than sure that i cant get a girl to hang out with me. im in college since a couple of weeks, so its different from a nightclub or daygame. i go to a small town university, so you will see the girl more often and stories will spread and no girl would want me because of the bad reputation.

@themajikalmethod just my face. i dont want to get plastic surgery though

Your face? What would you rate yourself from 1-10?

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Can you explain your process as to what goes on when you see a girl you're attracted to out in public?

@jackzero not higher than a 4.5/10 to be completely honest

@n2void theres no process.... i see a cute girl but i dont approach. im currently in uni since a couple of wks so im focused on girls there, but i wouldnt know how to get a girl to hang out with me. basic lines will not work.

im focused on hanging out with a girl because thats when you can take it to another level.

The problem lies beneath just looks. I know a lot of "ugly" dudes who bang more girls than good looking ones do.

I don't want to bash but look at RSD tyler. His looks doesn't stop him from getting laid.

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What are you doing to maximize your looks? How well do you dress? Hairstyle? What kind of shape are you in? There are things that you can do to make yourself slightly above average.

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@cross de lena you think hes ugly? i look worse than him. im not joking. he looks average to me.

@jackzero i try to look my best so i groom myself often

how do you guys do it? id like to know what techniques you use when you ask a girl out. it would really help.

No techniques bro. It's all in your mindset. Techniques won't fix your beliefs. You will become dependent on techniques. My roommate fell victim to this, I told him everything he had to say and he did get laid. But I pretty muched picked up for him. I stopped helping him when I realized this. He never progressed since then. He still asks me for a handout. I tell him no.



Get your own shit together. You will build confidence that way.

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I am referring to your internal process when you see a woman you find attractive.

Telling yourself "I am ugly, therefore no girl will find me attractive" is a pretty self-defeating, and self-fulfilling dogmatic belief.

If you post a picture you can get some feedback on what might be able to be improved upon.

Honestly, I believe that your look is probably one of the most important things when it comes to getting girls.

I have just created this POF profile for myself, and although it's not finished yet (I still need to add more pictures) I've had 14 girls view my profile within the last 48 hours. I can only put this down to my headline and also the picture that I've used (where I've used style to increase my attractiveness to the girls). Trust me, It makes a difference.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?pro ... =127347116

Notice how I say 'your look' and not just your inherited looks. Most guys unless there is something majorly wrong can create a style of their own that highlights their attractive features and makes them look cooler. Like I said, post a picture or two and I'll give you some honest feedback on what you might need to do about this.

Ignore the guys that are saying that this is some sort of limiting belief. Until we've seen a picture we can't tell you that for sure.

He should be working on both. What you're offering is a temporary solution. All you're saying is a makeover was needed and that should fix everything.

That's like putting new paint on a dirty wall but the wall is still dirty.

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