Help before i screw up permanently!

Coworker totally flaked on our deal today from friday we agreed to on our little romantic adventure in the forest that went awesome and NOW is suddenly "busy" until thursday!!! No playful/flirty message as usual, NOTHING! just work message and then "Busy."

I tried to send an emotional trigger with a little tension/disappointment like "Damn... :/" and then back to work stuff.

Im not sure about this move... Maybe i got this...

I guess u must stop contacting her until she contacts u back.
Be too needy and u fuck up.

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- English is not my main language, so don't mind my mistakes pls.

Sorry, your typing is vague I can't even....

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Uncertainty is the root of all progress and all growth.

Oh they don't cover this in your mystery method book ? I see...

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Problem: We work together. Im with her all day. I just saw her and we're gonna start like 7 or 8 tomorrow morning with a half hour drive to another town. (I dont have licence so she drives. It may be concidered low value, but i see it as an opportunity and i dont give a fuck. She likes driving & my hands are free.)

And i've learned that theres a difference between needy and confident. I dont come across as needy. Intense/emotional maybe, but not needy. I used to get sooo many IOI's from this girl, even just last week, she was waiting on me to make a move. She is 8/10, a little above me in the system (business, clients, secretary/office shit) and im just the technician.. This is a little more complicated.

Like I said in that other thread you started, and all the threads you been starting lately, you lack self-awareness.


You are needy. If you weren't needy you wouldn't have said "this is a little more complicated". You are being needy right now.

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The trail isnt cold!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its hot as fuck!! Or at least somewhere in between. Just got major IOI on text after work.

DUDE! Im not in a fucking nightclub sarging up skanks! This is major classy career bitch who wouldnt be seen in those places if she was dead, 7 years older than me who knows im a recovering drug addict and ex-con!

YES this IS a little more complicated!

That explains everything. Your need for a quick fix...

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Whats that supposed to mean? A cheap shot on my former health problems? Stop the disrespect please, i have gone through this shit enough bro. Hard enough without sarcarstic internet comments. What you cant be happy for another dude doing good and help him out because you have issues with his former life?? I wouldnt do that shit to you, i would fucking lend you a hand!

In a sense. Its good to hear your out of those things. But what you're doing right now is looking for a quick fix to help your situation. Every other poster has given you good advice but you're still looking for that magic pill. It is just ironic that you said what you said. There's no magical way to get this girl unless its making a move. Indirect is for the weak.

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That is one of the funniest sentences I've read in a while.

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I mix indirect and direct. It all depends on the situation. Going too direct right now would freak the hell out of her. She is insecure AF! I need more tension, kino and escalation! Indirect/direct has nothing to do with weak/strong, its all strategic and i would have nothing against going direct if i knew it would work at a high level, which it currently wont!

Im glad i could amuse you. Please explain the punchline because i dont get it.

Explain what is needy and what is confident. You will get the punchline.


And how do you know this girl is insecure...because every insecure girl I met was glad at the end of the day to end up with a confident man...maybe I live in lala land.

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