So there is this cute chick i went out with 2 weeks ago.The date was okay she seemed to be laughing and stuff .did a lot of kino but no kissing or stuff like that because it was in public.i could not isolate.anyway post the date we talked on the phone quite a few times i asked her out twice.the first time she said she was busy(it seemed genuine) but the second time i asked her out and it was through text she blatantly ignored me.it was through SPAM so you know whether someone has read your message or not.i was like hey am free today if you are free lets meet up.she read my message and didn't respond.i called her out on that and she still didn't respond.i decide to freeze her out.fast forward a few days later i get a text from her asking me about how i am doing.i have not responded till now.What should i do and if i am to reply should i remind her about how she acted like a bitch by ignoring me or should i just play cool or should i just ignore her texts?any advice would be appreciated.

90 % you've been dumped and you're being hung on as a resource of likes on social media.

No need to get upset or call her out really. Simply tell her that you're waiting for her to reply to your invitation out. Then leave her. She will respond, view and ignore for a bit. See if she makes alternate plans, then decide whether or not you want to accept

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

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"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option."

This is one of the most important quotations I've ever read on this forum. So true! Well put, Heywood!

No need to reply to her... she was very clear in her intentions by not responding anymore... keep your dignity and delete her.

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Agreed!

Be the priority, keep options.

I don't think I'd do that. Deleting her = 0% chance of pussy. You get some chance, even if it's small with another message like "Awaiting your response..."

Please explain this further. The implication is that the OP will continue to contact the girl that rejected him and he would now have the chance to change her mind. How would he go about doing that?

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Pursuing a woman that's clearly not interested in taking these further puts you at a deficit with yourself.

How do you respect yourself by engaging in such a futile endeavour?

Bro this only works if you're getting pussy on the side. I know what you're saying and girls that are not interested now suddenly are all gun ho about devouring your cock. Its like planting a bunch of seeds in a garden. Some plants grow faster than others.

The upside is "i knew she would come around"

the downside is you have to know what you're doing. And this method might take weeks for it to work.

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And keeping her number is a 10% chance. And while you invest all your time and effort into that 10%, you could have been sleeping with 3 other different girls that were open to you.

Learn to let go of bad bets.

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I get what you're saying. I just don't feel like sending a message every now and then to her would be that much investment. If she keeps saying "no", then I'd move on. But if there's a chance for recovery, I'd take it. Wouldn't put much effort in to it, though.

Putting yourself in the position of giving her the opportunity to keep saying "no" and she does just that, that's even a lower chance for recovery. Deleting a number keeps you under control. If she reinitiates contact, the chance of recovery actually goes up.

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