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Isn't it normal for couples to go for days without talking? And I'm not referring to freezing anyone out.
Not really. Like I said. I'll send a funny pic, she'll comment back and then we'll exchange a few more texts later in the day. That's talking. That's what I consider normal. That's what I do with friends as well. As far as actual phone calls go, I rarely ever call. Unless it's more of an urgent
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but the truth is, she's really boring in messaging conversations, she just kills the mood, even with flirty messages; so I told her that I don't like messaging in general, just so I won't make her feel bad
That's kinda stupid. If she cooks for you and you dislike the meal, are you gonna say you loved it just to not make her feel bad?
The only result of that will be her cooking the same meal over and over, and you hating it over and over.
Be honest. If she's a boring texter tell her to step her game up. Maybe she is texting you when she's bored. Maybe she doesn't have many friends to talk to, like Furioux said. Whichever the case may be, encouraging her to do it because you "don't wanna make her feel bad" is a lose-lose scenario.