I have been wondering why most PUA's fall for a woman and some claim to like bitchy women. I posted a few times that girls have said hey, I am not just a hookup. I was always confused because I am not a misogynist, I love women. Most of the time you guys told me "emotional connection" but I thought about it some more and I said, no that can't be it...and then it hit me.

In fact, I give them the benefit of the doubt of just being just a booty call. Most of the time though, I realize that they are just a booty call. They don't really contribute anything meaningful so I get bored. They don't have anything going other than telling me what Kim Kardashian was doing or something related to their work life.


Boring. But I am a patient man, I dig deeper and find out she liked art. She even had some pieces and I have my interest piqued again. Unfortunately, she then tells me that she dropped that hobby a long time ago and she is back to square one of just being about sex. I even try to encourage her to keep it up if she really liked it but you know how things go. Can't force someone to be more than sex am I right.


Women have ALL these qualities they want in a man but they never realize that they too, should be embodying all these qualities themselves.

The recipe for a PUA falling for a woman is a woman who is self-confident, independent, and has integrity. And she is feminine will also be a huge advantage if she understands that men have to be men and women have to be women. Men have a need for masculinity and she will understand a mans perspective and not just filter everything through her female eyes.





As players, as men, we are more than sex already. We are learning to get sex. Approach, schedule dates, flirt, seduce, etc. Now men are just as prone to just being just sex as girls. Guys who are crying about their girl leaving them or why their girl is leaving also fails to ask themselves the money question "Are YOU more than sex". Because I guarantee that if I come through and I give her what she wants plus the sex you've been giving her that you claim is soooooo good that it should be enough to keep her around, you will be asking "wait, huh where did she go"


The only thing guys who are good at sex have going for them is that there is a lack of men who are great in bed. So they illusion themselves that sex is all they need to be successful. Yes, you will be successful short term, but not long term.


They fail to realize that one day, a man will be both great in bed, and realize that she is a human with passions and a vibrant lifestyle. She will definitely come with me. I am not a one dimensional cookie.

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And if you aren't trying to have some transcendent experience, this post can be summarily ignored.

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These hos ain't loyal

And I understand that. Some guys just want the sex and that's fine. But there are guys don't just want the sex and want the whole enchilada. My post was more geared toward men who want the sex and then start
complaining about just getting sex.


You don't complain Dj. So I mean you do you right lol.

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