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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 8:52 pm 
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Just don't give her what she wants when she demands it. Most women always want more. More. More. More. Never enough. Going through my years, when I didn't know anything about women, women told me to do this and they will be happy. I did that. Then it turned into do this too, I did that. When the carousel was over, she's like eh i don't like this ride anymore, I am going to go on the ferris wheel. Cya later!

Most of situations I get into, it's always what they want. "Make more time for me or you don't care enough"

I have enough self-respect to know that I am busy, I am not going to just change my schedule around that I have spent a few days trying to work in my hobbies, the gym, and other things just because she tries to guilt me into believing I don't care. Nonsense.

And its usually from girls who i have been dating a few weeks. Men, ask yourself, what has this girl done for you other than give you a blowjob or sex ? This isn't a men are better than girls rant, it's what has she done to demand more time ?

Women LOVE to act like we are the takers of sex and they are the givers of sex and that their pussies don't get wet and moist for insertion but if sex is all a woman really has to offer...how is she different from the next girl ? Why does she demand all this attention and time from you ? Why are you so available at the drop of a hat ?

Don't let a woman lead you down a path of emotional appearance based, giving in to his urges, way of looking at the world.

Same thing for dates, I pay for the first date because I invite the girls out. Cool. Now if she starts saying 8) where are you taking me next time. I just look at her like :| the park ? If she asks about another outing requiring me to take out my wallet, I will be assertive and ask if she can get us this time or at least split it. If she starts pouting, I always ask myself "why is she suggesting another date if she does not want to pay, why is she feeling entitled?" if the answer is still, just sex then just remember the times you both had sex and both of you were enjoying it. Don't feel bad. She will thank you for it in the long run.

Now there are men out there that just want sex, but there are also women out there doing the same thing. You easily can find out a person's agenda by just withdrawing sex. If the guy goes ghost. There you go. The problem I have here is when women use it as their currency. I have had women pull this shit on me thinking I was going to bend backwards over her. Absolutely not. Even IF I there is no evidence that I was treating her like shit I will still get this crap. A woman acting like she doesn't like sex, is silly. The fact that you are going to change your behavior to validate a belief she probably doesn't even believe in, is silly. I had one girl tell me AFTER sex "I just came here to hang out". This was after her orgasms, and there was no resistance on her part to stop me before we started

Fellas, do yourself a favor, if you sense a hint of entitlement on a chick, don't do it. You are making her grow as a person or she will just find another sucker to punk around. If you do meet a chick who isn't entitled and doesn't guilt you or shame you into doing things. Keep her around.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2016 7:03 pm 
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First off..I understand that most women are used to being approached by men and having their flaws overlooked even when they choose to make the first move. As a result, they never get to develop any pickup skills, social skills, or understand how they come off to people. In other words, they have no self awareness. Worst of all, they aren't used to being corrected, let alone constructive criticism.

I put women in two categories

A girl who is a virgin who has no clue about men or the environment that you're currently living in, and you're hoping for some magical Prince Charming to sweep you off your feet and take you to a far, far away land where you will be a princess and live happily ever after. Or, you're a woman who has "had her fun", meaning you've had sex with many different men and you're deciding to make some new rules for yourself.

Ah the sex as a bargaining chip. This automatically sends off a hidden internal conflict with me. If this girl is withholding sex from you in the beginning, what is going to stop her from withholding it down the road. If you give in to her whims because she is withholding sex, you are setting yourself up for a "give me affection/what I want, or no sex" deal. The only problem I have is this, I can be myself, not make the relationship one sided and she will still try to play this power play on me.

If you have nothing going for yourself other than your idea of a perfect relationship that requires a man to be your emotional tampon who understands you, and "gets you", and listens to you, and does things your way, while you remain oblivious to anything about him, or his needs, or his perspective, here are some words to live by... "You get out what you put it". There are a lot of women out there like this. They will ask "where are the good men"

For women who fit into the second category, here's the deal, the only people they are fooling, are the naive guys that they are not interested in. They don't care about the values they claim to have, they just know that sex is what guys want(in her experience), and they can't seem to find anyone who is interested in more than a quick pump and dump. So a clever way of dealing with their reality is to pretend that they are waiting until their wedding night, or until they decide that he's the "right guy". The problem isn't the men who just want to have sex with you, and just so these girls know, many of the men they had sex with were the "right guy", but they just wanted to have sex with them..I wonder why... Making a man wait until you decide to have sex with him isn't gonna solve their problems, because the problem is that sex is all they have to offer. Their way of dealing with being disillusioned was to try and re-delude themselves by insisting on waiting for a man that they think all men should be like to show up and put his sex life on hold until further notice from them, and without noticing how your ignorant idea of what every man should be looks to every man

When women start complaining that men just want sex and aren't noticing how interesting and intelligent they are, they are SPAM quick information about themselves, and it's information that suggests that they are not as interesting and intelligent as they claim to be.

Don't get me wrong, the mentality I have presented here is why I am able to still date these girls. They just find some other sucker to give in to their whims while they sometimes come back to me and purr and act all innocent. These girls aren't healthy for me in the long-term. I keep these girls as fuck buddies or friends. Rarely romantic, unless I want to read this post everyday to remind myself to not stray away from a successful mindset.


There are good women out there.

The "good woman" has no understanding of masculinity because society has fried her brains, thus making her impervious to anything outside of a female perspective. This is why you hear women aggressively throwing questions at men by asking them what men want, in the most passive aggressive manner, while arguing from ignorance about how they think men should think and what they think men should want. Many of these "good women" have been brainwashed into thinking that they belong on a pedestal and that a man who kowtows to them is a "real man" or a "true gentleman". The "good woman" doesn't realize that the key to understanding men isn't to ask a bunch of questions about men while expressing her frustration, but instead to be observant, analytical and attentive. And she can't expect to understand anything she learns about men if she's gonna be studying men from a female perspective and then filtering everything about men through her female perspective. The "good woman" has no idea how she looks or how she is perceived, especially when her inquiries aren't out of curiosity, but out of discontent and disapproval for men, with the hopes that she finds a solution or at least gets some clarity for an issue that she believes stems from men and has nothing to do with herself. And the worst part about that is, when she finally gets a reflection of herself, she objects to it and takes it personal.

To the fellas:

It is YOU who chose a woman who has zero understanding of your perspective and fails to see anything from a man's point of view. It is you who blindly tolerate her irrational state of mind, and accommodate whatever qualities she has, until there you are pounding your fists on the table because she has no communication skills and no insight whatsoever.

Don't be the kind of man who is a naive and doesn't have the knowledge to enlighten these "good women" or doesn't have guts to put his foot down and insist on who he is as a man, or doesn't have the self respect to carry himself properly, and instead decides to acquiesce or conform just to keep the "good women" happy, or to maintain access into their vaginas, he prevents women from educating themselves about men even more. He also turns his gender into walking toilet paper. It's amazing how men can be bashed and publicly disrespected while men sit powerlessly and just deal with it.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2016 7:28 pm 
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At any rate, I have to challenge your ideas about splitting the bill. Some women are simply raised to be spoiled. It's just how they've lived their whole lives. . . and some people have the money for their silver spoon appetites. I live in Manhattan, I've experienced everything you are discussing, I'm only suggesting you consider the bigger picture and be less vindictive of what many would call a "gold digger."


I am looking at the bigger picture. I actually want to go back to NYC in a year or two. I want to test out this silver spoon appetite for myself. I've been getting a taste here. So far the ideas I have proposed have worked on spoiled women because it is these girls that usually use sex as a bargaining chip.

Women only have pussy power because men want to fuck them. Women only have as much power as men give them. If you take away sex as a bargaining chip, what is left ? If she doesn't have a great personality, she doesn't make me laugh, doesn't make me want to be around her after the deed is done....she is no different from my guy friends. I am talking about entitled women here. If she has nothing other than sex to offer me, it's not because I just wanted sex, it's because she literally has NOTHING to offer me.

Now men on the other hand, can get women to want to fuck them by having various attributes and presenting impressive qualities. Unless a man is drop dead gorgeous, or a man that a woman already knows about, an average man is pretty much like a blank photo. The more a woman gets to know about a man, the more the blank photo either turns into an ugly or a beautiful picture. Men just don't operate that way. A man doesn't make his sexual decisions based on emotions.

When I'm hungry and I see a plate of chicken and rice, I'm not thinking about getting to know the plate of chicken and rice. I'm thinking about opening my mouth and filling it with chicken and rice. I might give it a quick whiff to make sure it's not spoiled and then hope to god it's not spiked with poison, but once my quick inspection is done, it's time to get down to business. Should I later decide to read up on the history of farming, agriculture, and cooking, there is a good chance that I will be amazed by what I find.


THE IRONY OF THE ENTITLED WOMAN:


When a woman goes out looking for the opposite sex, wether it's to get gang banged on vacation, or to a club to get male attention, or to a place where successful men hang out, she's counting on men to be the same types of men she complains about when she's not looking for sex or male attention. So when she expresses her disgust for the men that only want sex, or the cat callers that keep harassing her, just know that she degraded herself in one way or another for those men when it was convenient for her. Like most women who complain about the same things they rely on, she thinks reality will rearrange itself for her own convenience.


What women don't seem to realize is that if men weren't exactly as they are, women wouldn't get laid. That is because women don't get sex on their own merit. The funny part is that women who complain about guys who just want sex are oblivious to how much they are revealing their lack of consideration, lack of intelligence, lack of self awareness, and lack of understanding of how things work. If women were as interesting and impressive as they like to tell men they are, they would at least understand that men don't want to have sex with women because of who they are, what they have, or what they do. If that was the case, then women would only be getting sex if men found them interesting, and that would obviously mean that sex wouldn't be all men wanted from women.


So when a woman ignorantly demands a man to want more than sex from her, while bragging about how easy women can get sex, while being clueless to the fact that there's nothing a woman can do to get sex, she is making it more obvious that she thinks the world revolves around her reality, which makes her very unattractive to the men she wants "more than sex" from. What she doesn't understand, is that just as easy as women can get "just sex", men can get "more than sex". Men already have those options under their belt, therefore, sex is what men are teaching themselves how to get. As opposed to men who are trying to get good at getting sex, women are just complaining about why they can't get more than sex, and that certainly doesn't help them get more than sex!

As much as women like to brag about sex as their bargaining chip, every time they spread their labia for men, they are doing so because of what he has, who he is, what he does, what he can do for her, or how he made her feel. All things that a man had to accomplish on his own. Every time a woman gets laid, it is to a man's credit. Men get laid as a result of having what it takes to get "more than sex", whereas women get laid as a result of the man wanting "just sex". A man can make a woman want to have sex with him, but there's nothing a woman can do to make a man want to have sex with her. He either already wants to fuck her or he doesn't. And if he doesn't, then it wouldn't matter whether she has a nice car, or a nice house, or all the intellect in the world.

A woman gets laid as a result of and in compliance with a man's need to have a sexual release.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 05, 2016 8:55 am 
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I think men would have far less problems if they'd just made a habit out of putting themselves first.

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I think men would have far less problems if they'd just made a habit out of putting themselves first.
They would but

They are afraid of the girl closing her legs.

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I didn't read through all the replies....but.

As far as the withholding sex thing, you do realize there are some women out there (and men, too) who do not feel comfortable emotionally and physically sleeping with a person after a couple of dates.

This whole bargaining chip, sure, it can be a game for some women. But don't put every woman into that category.

While you're complaining about this, I had a guy a while back tell me he really respects me, that I don't go around giving sex to every Tom, Dick and Harry. Don't assume every guy thinks like you, because obviously, that's not the case.

3 dates doesn't equivocate to sex, or you're out. Some people move at a slower pace and not necessarily because of mind games or whatever.

But it seems like you're running into a lot of mind games girls.

Different strokes for different folks.

Secondly, have you considered there are religious people out there? Yes, people that want to maintain their virginity for marriage. I respect that. To be honest, if I found a really great guy that also happened to be a virgin due to religious reasons (or not), I wouldn't think of him any less, or that he's playing games. If God is a big part of who you are, then more respect to you for following through and sticking to your beliefs.


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While you're complaining about this, I had a guy a while back tell me he really respects me, that I don't go around giving sex to every Tom, Dick and Harry. Don't assume every guy thinks like you, because obviously, that's not the case.
Tell us more about this guy. Did you date him?

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While you're complaining about this, I had a guy a while back tell me he really respects me, that I don't go around giving sex to every Tom, Dick and Harry. Don't assume every guy thinks like you, because obviously, that's not the case.
Tell us more about this guy. Did you date him?
And you're asking this because you're doubting that he would what? FYI, he comes from a conservative background. Not sure why you men are trying to portray yourselves as all ready to jump a woman's bones within the first 20 seconds.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2016 3:19 am 
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Lol. Feeling paranoid? A better question...how do I think?

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How do you think?


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How do you think?
You made the claim. I was just interested in finding out if you and that guy dated.

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How do you think?
You made the claim. I was just interested in finding out if you and that guy dated.
It was a complicated situation, that involved both a yes, and a no.


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How do you think?
You made the claim. I was just interested in finding out if you and that guy dated.
It was a complicated situation, that involved both a yes, and a no.
Quit playing dumb. Was he interested in you?

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The irony is that every one of your "disagreements" is answered in this thread, if you wish to learn how to keep a man license plate lady, you will re-read those posts again ^
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The "good woman" has no idea how she looks or how she is perceived, especially when her inquiries aren't out of curiosity, but out of discontent and disapproval for men, with the hopes that she finds a solution or at least gets some clarity for an issue that she believes stems from men and has nothing to do with herself. And the worst part about that is, when she finally gets a reflection of herself, she objects to it and takes it personal.

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Quit playing dumb. Was he interested in you?
Well, does intimacy count? Does asking her to be your girlfriend count? :roll:


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