lol wow, i dont think shes that high strung. maybe if she was a 9 or 10 she would have reason to be that way. does everything HAVE to follow the pua rules so strictly?? why cant i just be real, and be who i am? i can understand if she had a bitch shield, but she doesnt

DTM, here is what I'm seeing. She opens you and you use L.A. Tripp's comment back, and then instead of bantering we're building comfort right away. You start asking here where she goes to college, high school, and what she likes to do downtown. There isn't really any negging or DHV stories going on. So I see that you have built comfort with your target but not attraction.

I agree she didn't have a bitch shield or anything. Hell, she opened you so that's not really an issue. She's showing interest in you but you still have to get the attraction going.

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i will reply with more detail later on..

i didnt see any negs in there..very 'flat' all around.. will post when i get back home

(edit: was on pg 2 so didnt see smooths post..sorry for repeating)

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I agree sort of. Since she messaged you (big IOI) the attraction was immediately there, so you don't necessarily have to build it, but you do have to keep her attraction temperature up....and straight up comfort talk isn't going to get that done. I think you can be yourself and do exactly what you did, just add in some fun little push/pull bits or future projection bits to keep things fresh.

Tripp makes a really good point about coming off beta and needy. You should never ask a girl when she is free or available. Instead, tell her when you are available...give her a couple options. Here's a message that we are still field-testing, but so far it's worked great on the 6 out of 7 girls we've tried it on...

I'm super busy the rest of this week, but havent made plans yet for monday or wednesday. So pick a day and shoot me a text...###-###-####. lol actually this may be a bad idea...you have a cute good girl face and something tells me if you rolled with me you'd experience so much craziness your head would explode!

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alright lesson learned

thanks guys

she hasnt contacted me at all yet, apparently i blew it. that shows my online sarging experience . i prefer to sarge in person anyway

Nobody should ever give up sarging in field just to run myspace game. myspace & facebook should be a supplement to your regular dating life, not a substitute. But it's your call of course. I can tell though with your badass Italian look and sense of humor you could easily be pulling tons of hotties off myspace.

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lol is that sarcastic?

no, I was being completely serious.

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oh, i was wondering because ive never been told i look italian. im actually polish haha. thanks tho

lol u sure? Mehow is polish and he looks polish. you definitely look more italian in that pic than polish.

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Thoughts on where to go with this?

Me: You know... its really interesting that you said that. When I meet new people I always look for three qualities: 1) Intellect 2) Personality and 3) ability to cook mac and cheese. From what I can tell you have at least 2/3. Looks like you're off to a good start, Trouble.

I would say my qualities are 1) A passion for music 2) Being adventurous/spontaneous and 3) Well this one is a secret, you have to earn it. Since we're both dangerous tell me about some trouble we could get into and I'll let you in on my third quality

HB9.5: what is the quality that I am missing? lol...i have intellect and personality AND can make mac and cheese! haha

not sure how to respond to that one...any ideas?

-Xeroz