So I went on a date I have been on and of with this Saturday. After not speaking for 4 months I hit her up again for lunch. We ended up scheduling a date. This Girl gets a lot of attention as it is. But for some reason she keeps giving me chances, even after saying we should stay friends 4 months back where I completely stopped talking to her after that. Last Saturday I took her out to dinner and everything went great. She told me all this personal stuff about her family. And asked me if I wanted kids and how many and that we should go to a football game in the future. When the night was over she suggested we walked so we did that. After that she hugged me and I kissed her which was ok. But for some reason it seemed like she rushed it. Now Tuesday I texted her how her day is basic stuff. And said I had a great time with her last Saturday and if I could take her out again for Friday or Saturday. Now this is where it gets weird: She says I don't know what I am doing yet. So I don't know!! Knowing my value I said. Alright let me know. Talk to you later.
Any tips on getting the second date?

Bring a pink dildo with you, just in case.

Delete her number. She basically said that if she can't find anything else to do then maybe she'll go out with you. If you know your value, you wouldn't deal with that type of shit...unless you do value yourself too highly.

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It sucks. But I guess you are right! I thought I hadn't done enough flirting at first. Which I haven't at all to be honest. It was just a lot of mixed signals. if anything is gonna happen she's gonna have to work a bit?

If you didn't put in the work to make it happen and she responded like that, then I wouldn't expect her to put in any work.

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Well I have no Idea dude. After our date saturday I texted her today and asked her how Her new Job is going. And she said Hey!! Good thanks!!. And I reply glad to hear that. I had a good time with you the other night. Can I take you out again for Friday or saturday. And then I got that reply from her.

Who payed for dinner ? And were you planning on paying the next time you guys hung out ?


this girl is just keeping you around. You're just a pawn. You don't matter.

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The follow up after a date isn't where you put in the effort. It's the date where you put in the effort. That's where you're supposed to make her want to spend time with you. If you are saying that you didn't flirt enough with her on a date, what's going to be great about a text afterwards? Why should she want another date if you didn't make the effort during the last date?

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Oooh, let's hear this one out. Chick flaked because he didn't pay

She paid for herself and I payed for me. when I got the check she said: dont worry about it. I can pay for my self. But I paid for dessert after dinner.

Don't think she's interested in you dude.

If she really was, she wouldn't wait 4 months later to contact you. And keep you friends, really?

She put you on the back burner.

Delete her number.

No the date went great. Like really great. thats why I have no idea whats happening. everything clicked.. connection was good and all. Of course I flirted during the date. It was a push and pull. If the conversation stopped she picked it back up. And she initiated to extend the night when we finished dinner and suggested we go for a walk along the river.

No thats not how it was. I might have explained that wrong. I go to college in the same country as her. But I went home for break for about 4 months. Timezones are different and so on. We face timed once. And like snapchat a few times. But thats about it. we were friends when I left. But started dating when I got back.

Dude, you're making too many excuses.

She's not into you.

You know what's the ultimate test to see if she is? Don't contact her again. See if she contacts you.

What do you mean by this?

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