There is this old acquaintance who I haven't seen in 3 years. I hit her up on Facebook, we had a good conversation going and I asked if she would like to meet up at the mall Fri 1 pm to catch up. She said yes and gave me her phone number.

Now, how can I seduce her to where she would want to make out with me (whether it be in the movie theater, her or my car, etc.).

What are some techniques/methods/strategies that I can implement in order for us to lead to a make-out session. She is single and I would say a 6 or 7.

If you have any further questions, please let me know.

Thanks

Does she know the intention of you asking her to meet up? Is it supposed to be a friendly catch up or did you show her that you find her attractive?

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A mall date is crap unless it's an insta-date with no better options.

You should have set up something where some romance/sexuality is a little more expected (a nighttime venue of some sort so you can chat and then get her somewhere decently private to escalate physically: secluded bar corner, a park, apartment, etc.).

You're going to have to gauge her level of attraction during the mall date and maybe try to take it somewhere more private (like your place, for a movie? snacks? drinks?)

To actually escalate: start by touching around her shoulders and/or waist - whatever is more natural. If she doesn't react or reacts positively, you continue. Keep getting closer to her proximity wise. Bump into her gently (thighs, arms, etc.). Eventually you can start playing with her hair gently. After that, you can try the "look at her left eye, right eye, then lips" technique and slowly go in for a kiss (you can and should be touching her at this point - like have your arm around her or touching her somehow).

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Tell her to close her eyes and then firmly make out with her. Girls LOVE surprises tfrom their friends.

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from an old high school friend? put him in full nelson from the front, then plant a big wet one

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Dodge topics like religion, politics, and stay away from negativity. Have light conversations. And if you want to make out with her some poster said everything you need to know (light touching to heavy). Google how to escalate.

And don't wait the end of the date to kiss her.

Lead and take her somewhere casual.

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FLIRT WITH HER! Be obvious with it. Tease her like a bratty kid sister. Use sexual innuendos, then turn it around on her, telling her she has a dirty mind. Keep escalating. Don't be afraid to make a move. If she's reacting positively keep pushing the envelope.

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I love doing that. Always turns out good.

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Got a few girls I went to high school with recently. In my experience, the best thing to do is get them back to your place, or back to theirs if they live alone. Make slight sexual jokes with them too. It doesn't necessarily have to be about the two of you. One I use is just acting masculine the whole time I'm with them, then saying something super gay. Like "That Bill Nye... I'd fuck the shit out of him. He's cool."

Just pick anyone to place in that line, that's what I do.

I usually use some stupid line to get them back to my place. Like "I've got this really cool *insert whatever you want here* back at my place. Want to see it? It's badass". Don't pull that one out until you've built a little more rapport, though. Do kino. Easiest way to initiate in my opinion is the "Trust Test" that Mystery uses. After you escalate a bit physically (tickling, arm around her, etc). If she's returning the kino, that tends to be a very good sign in my limited experience. Once you sense she's comfortable and having a good time, the "Kiss Gambit" from Mystery is pretty good. Not much chance of a rejection.

Say "Would you like to kiss me?" While looking in to her eyes.

Her responses and what to do:
"Yes"- Go for it
"Maybe, I don't know, doesn't say anything but keeps looking at you" - Go for it
"No"- I didn't say you could. Just looked like you had something on your mind. Then laugh it off and pretend like nothing happened.


My personal setup is basically a studio apartment. Only comfortable place to sit in there is on the bed. I have an old wooden rocking chair in there, but nobody wants to sit on that. They climb on the bed every time, and it's pretty easy from there.

I'm a noob, so take anything I say with a grain of salt

I did not show her that I find her attractive. But I never implied that it was "friendly." All I asked is if she would like to hang out and catch up? And she said yes.

I still live with my parents and I'm going through some personal problems with home life so I can't take her back. I am open to going to a private park around Rutgers or a movie theater or something.

How do you know when it is okay to start touching? What are the signs or situations that are opportune?

This is what is going to make things difficult for you. If the way you presented yourself wasn't based on attraction and flirtation and you asked her to "hang out", she's going to approach it like you guys are old friends catching up. I know a lot of the guys here are telling you that you need to talk to her a certain way and escalate but, IMO, doing that when you meet up with her makes it so you have to start digging yourself out of a hole because right now she has no intimate expectations. You shouldn't be digging yourself out of a hole when you meet up with her. She should be meeting you and the possibility of a kiss is already in her head.

If you want to kiss her, you need to start the flirtation with her before you meet up. Chances are, if she doesn't have any interest, she'll end up flaking because she'll know the real deal now. If she does flake, it would actually be a good thing because you wouldn't have wasted your time. If she doesn't flake, then you can do all of the escalation stuff mentioned before and pretty much guarantee your kiss.

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You start off touching. Walk up and give her a big bear hug when you first see her. Do some light touches on her arm and such while talking. If she seems resistant (pulling away from you, not returning touch at all), back off a bit. If she starts touching back and not resisting, see if you can get a little more touchy. If she doesn't seem in to it, give her some space, then try again later. On the parents thing, tell her you rent from them if it comes up. That's higher value than getting a free place to live. If you go to the theater or something don't offer to pay for her, make her work a bit for it. If you wind up at a restraunt/booth somewhere. Sit next to her, rather than across from her. No chance for any sort of physical escalation if she's sitting across from you.

You don't "obtain" a kiss from a girl