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 Post subject: Re: Virtual negging
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 2:32 am 
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So I'm going to go ahead an guess that a one night stand is not something you would be interested in?

You wanted her to take things nice and slow with you?

Nevertheless I agree with Dragula. I personally don't even comment on the photo when girls do that. I won't say anything, and I'll just jump into regular conversation as if she texted me " Hey how are you!". I've seen the best results from taking that approach versus complimenting her on a photo that every single guy that she texted it to would compliment her on. Or that she could put on snap chat and instagram and get thousands of "you're sexy" comments. As I'm sure she already does.

Aren't you "punishing" her then for sending you her photo?

If you just ignore her "effort" of sending you her photo, you are not reinforcing the behavior you would like her to repeat in the future.
We're not talking about a girl you've been talking to that sends you a photo. We're talking about an attention seeking girl that immediately sends a provocative photo at the start of the conversation. The intention in those two photos are different. And so the response should be to the intention more so than the action. But to answer your question; while in these situations, the photos didn't stop coming in. Its like they were trying to continue to illicit a reaction - The common reaction.

And I'm still engaging in stimulating conversation following the photo; I'm not ignoring them completely. So I consider that a reward nonetheless. As we all should consider giving a time to a woman for any type of conversation a reward.
+1 - That's a much better explanation of what I am trying to say,

Surely you guys have encountered many of these scenarios?

In my whole pick up 'Career' - one time a girl did this to me and she was legit DTF, quite an anomaly scenario. But if it happens, I ALWAYS never get my hopes up with it.

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 Post subject: Re: Virtual negging
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 2:54 am 
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I sure have. Just because these girls show me some skin I'm suppose to be drinking their piss and eating their doo doo ass. No thanks

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 Post subject: Re: Virtual negging
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 2:58 am 
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I sure have. Just because these girls show me some skin I'm suppose to be drinking their piss and eating their doo doo ass. No thanks

Hmm, not quite at what I was getting at.....but okay :P

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 Post subject: Re: Virtual negging
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 2:12 pm 
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Apologies, been around Heywood too much

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 Post subject: Re: Virtual negging
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 Post subject: Re: Virtual negging
PostPosted: Fri Aug 26, 2016 9:04 am 
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You don't want to "neg" a girl. Why lower her self-esteem? It's probably low enough as it is. You tried to make her feel bad for sending you dirty pictures. That's a great way to make a girl feel judged.

If you make her feel good for being "your dirty little slut," you'll keep her coming back for more. Stop making girls feel shitty when they do slutty things if you want them to continue to do slutty things with you.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 26, 2016 2:43 pm 
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NEVER NEG A GIRL IN RESPONSE TO HER BEING SEXUAL OR PASSING A COMPLIANCE TEST YOU GIVE HER

ALWAYS REWARD/PRAISE OR RECIPROCATE/ESCALATE BEHAVIOR THAT IS EITHER SEXUAL OR IN COMPLIANCE WITH YOU

Or you can just stop negging altogether and just focus on the million other ways you can do attraction. Sexualization, emotional elicitation, masculine polarity, etc. etc. take your pick. Focusing on negging as much as mainstream pickup tells you to hurts more than it helps.


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