I fell in love with a girl for like 4 years now (yeah..i am AFC)
I just bought the game book of style like a week ago.It somehow helps me and expand my perspective views on how to pick the girl,but in my case it isn't about going out to the clubs and pick those girls.

let me say about the background first,we are both music students and she is a hottest pianist out there.She is one of the best piano student who has a concert around here almost every week.I am just a normal ordinary guy who just tried to change the life after the game. We are friends (not even very closed one) I went to several of her concerts and tried to get closer,but she is extremely busy with her tight schedule.I have a chance to see her not more than 1 or 2 a month (excluding the concerts if i go to meet her there but i would have not more than 10 mins private time with her in each of the concert)
so what i want to ask are some advices how to get her,how to be important in her mind...she has like 1000 guys who are waiting for her.
if you need any detail more to help me about this feel free to ask.
thank you in advance
btw.I am no english native speaker so take my apology for all english mistakes

Soooooo.....I will tell you what everyone else around here will tell you. You are suffering from One-itis. It means that you need to stop obsessing over this girl. There are 6.45 billion people in this world, and you need to get out and start meeting them(Mystery:) Obsessing over this girl is a sign of neediness and loneliness, two things that this girl does not want to find in a guy. I suppose that your ultimate goal would be to have this girl as your "girlfriend" right? well with her extremely busy schedule, she wouldn't have time for you anyways.

I suggest that you go ahead and buy the Mystery Method Ebook, or someone elses book on pick up, and read it. Then start using it, and practicing over and over.

I don't care how amazing and stunningly beautiful this girl is, you can STILL do better than her if you use the right tools. Goodluck!

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I randomly bought The Mystery method along with the game but havent got time yet to read about it all.I am still at the game..yeah I know i shouldnt be (or have been) obseessed with her..but would you guys think if i do and practise all of the things I am learning and go back to her.(yeah ..it is one-itis) but it cant be helped dude.I dated some girls else..but I really want this one (i think she would be much more free in about 2-3 years a perfect time to practise myself)
but is it possible to turn from a bestfriend to lover? many of my friends said once you are a damn bestfriend you dont have a chance of being together (i am not even her bestfriend yet)
anyway thanks for the advice

though an AFC, you're friends are probably right about not being able to go from bestfriends to lovers (probably some exceptions, but never heard of).
AND that's why you stay the hell outa the friend zone.