Alright, so I am a hardcase newbie or was.

Tonight I went out with a guy I met online for the first time, he is a beginner too, but he has game and I don't. At the beginning of the night we met up at a subway station, then we headed to a place in Hong Kong that's known for its partying scene. First, he approached 2 cute white girls and I just stood there lookin around like a complete chode, which is fine coz I learnt something from their interaction, nothing happened, the girls just walked off. Then we went to a bar, I ordered and drank a beer for the first time of my life, My whole personality changed after the drink, I became a lot more outgoing and stuff, I just said whatever was in my mind, after that we left the bar. We kept wandering around tryna look for a club, but turned out clubs are closed on Sundays so yea fuck that. After a while we saw 3 cute Chinese girls walked pass, he immediately approached them, I followed, I froze again, couldn't do anything. Later we went to venture the building that was next to where we were, inside we met a black guy an asian girl and a white girl, turned out they were all mit students, I said a bit more than just 'Hi, what's your name', the interaction was okay I said about 3 sentences which is absolutely mind blowing for me personally since I've never left my house after Hitler happened. Then, he told me to approach a 4set, I couldn't do it, so he did it for me he said something to her but I couldn't hear, I fucked up the set, he kept talkin to her, he tried to game her but nothing happened. We went to get some food, then we left.

Overall, for me personally I think the night was fantastic, I had lots of fun, and learnt something from it and I was a lil drunk when I wrote this so yea, sry about the grammar.

We didn't get a single number, we got nothing, zip, none.

number = 0
sex = 0

Those guys sound like awesome guys. I am pretty sure you won't be seeing them again. Come on man, I know you're new but you could at least make an effort instead of spectating?

Hanging out with these guys and actually becoming friends with them would be a phenomenal way to boost your game, but you're just going to alienate yourself from them if you are not going to even step foot in the trenches?

Surely you learned some material about this subject? Why not Apply it?

Make sure your next 'Sarge' is a little more practical because if I met you under the same circumstance, I would have literally told you that I am going solo and bailed on you. You have to add energy to the group, not suck the life from it.

Hanging out with guys like this are a MASSIVE asset to your learning curve.

Osmosis

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Alright man, thanks and I will be approaching next time.

Step 1, bro

Google some canned openers and routines at the very least if you need some training wheels. And something to use when your mind goes blank.

My 1st ever sarge, yeah I will admit I had some alcohol to help a little but I was fearless and approached girls like it was my last day on planet earth.

Word got spread around the community and the experienced people started to ask if they could join ME.

I have approach anxiety and what not but at the time for me, I was READY to grab my life by the balls and I HAD to put in the reps if I was going to get the gainz and rewards. Your report is the equivalent of going to the gym and not even touching a weight.

This shit changes your life if you don't dabble and take it seriously like its a matter of life or death. I used to be a ballsy fucker back in the day.

I hosted a local lair meet up at my house not so long ago. As per usual I will identify who are the dabbling spectators hoping to meet style and mystery.

There was one guy that stood out. He would approach and get rejected like crazy and he still smiled about it. I ignored the other guys who didn't make an effort or even consider approaching a woman that night.

I invited him out with me and he just emulated my experience and with in months he really shortened his learning curve where as I had to do a few more years of work to even get to that point since there was nobody I could emulate at the time.

Now we are travelling the world together and meeting up with girls. Really close friends, for life.

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Thanks for the advice, Yea you're right, I shoulda just put myself out there, I'll go look up some canned openers/routines in case I need them. Well I'll be out sarging on the upcoming Saturday, my goal is to at least approach 20 sets before I leave.

That's the spirit

At this point, don't even make the women the focus, focus on make the friends that are on the same journey.

Even if you get rejected like crazy, they will hang out with you again because thy can relate and appreciate your effort. Me and my friends call it 'The Glint'

Then you will share the journey together and can rub off on one another. That is a massive asset to your learning curve.

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Well I went out last night with my wings, I didn't have the balls to approach girls at first, then I had a couple of drinks and I got a little tipsy, I immediately approached like 2 sets, both sets were 'late for party' and had to go, after that I approached like 5 more sets, they blew me off, after that I approached a girl who was waiting for someone apparently, I managed to get her number within 5 mins, then I approached more and got rejected again, finally when we were about to leave I saw a 4 set, the were all 7 or above, my friend said they were gonna blow me off but I proved him wrong, I managed to get a number from one of the girls.

Good stuff, you shocked your brain even if you had a few drinks.

Keep at it, perhaps work on keeping the girl's engaged and work on getting them isolated with you.

Did you text the numbers? What happened? They are most likely to flake but you can work on it on a future sticking point. Your anxiety is the issue right now.

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Well here's the thing, I still haven't texted them yet, I have no idea what to do or say via text. I think I'm just gonna look up some pua guide on texting

This is literally ALL you need on the subject:

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