Hi long story short haha I met up with this girl who is a lesbian about 3 weeks ago for drinks. before this we only met each other once because she live out of town and only comes back on holidays. So when i got to the bar she had a fews friends with her which i seemed to get along with one really good within 10 mins i had her rubbing me up and grabbing my muscles and massaging me lol. Anyway i got pretty drunk and remember making out with this girl and also remember her grabbing my dick while dancing so she was pretty in to me but after we kissed for a bit we went to the bar and she brought me a drink but after that she seemed to disappear and i saw her making out with another guy.

So i got some water into me and managed to pull her away from this guy and then she seemed to be making out with the lesbian girl which i of course jumped in also. At the end of the night they wanted to go back to this other girls place that didn't really talk to me that much and they asked me if i wanted to be dropped home and i said ill just sleep on the couch at hers which she agreed to. Anyway the guy she had with her didn't want to come back so it was just me and the three of them back at her house and lesbian chick and her friend went into the bed room while i was in the toilet so the other girl and i where talking and she kept telling me how comfortable her bed was so i obviously took that as an invite. once i was in there we spoke a lil and she kept putting lip balm on so i said I've got dry lips so she handed me the lip balm but instead i just grabbed her and started kissing her. The whole time i was kissing her she never really tongued me at all so i asked her whats up and she replied that im terrible. I asked her what she meant and she said i only just met u and now your in my bed your a terrible influence or something and shes said shes not that easy either.

So anyway when i woke up the lesbian girl was sitting on the end of the bed and they must have thought i was asleep or something and i over heard her ask her how her night was? To which she replied it was good but he just kept talking right as i was about to sleep and that was it. I think my problem was i got a lil to drunk and failed to see the signs right in front of me. My question is should i hit the girl up on fb or not and see where is goes ? or do you guys think i made to much of a fool of myself to recover? I'm friends with the two girls that made out on fb but i've seen the other one replying to comments on there so i would have a way of adding her without making it look like i stalked her or something.

That pussy was on sale with deep discounts, and you still didn't seal the deal! Now you wanna go on Facebook to offer full price?

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Well yeah kinda haha not sure what i should do thats why i'm asking

Look man. Two things: Grow a pair and learn how to KEEP escalating.

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Sure send a friend request, I'm sure she'll accept. But that's all you'll get. A new friend. Among her 3000 or so. Say something witty on that post. Like-"Great party guys, thanks for inviting me, last thing I remember was passing out in some random girls bed."

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Thats sounds like a good way of opening. Shes not the kinda girl who has three thousand friends on fb i think shes a private person with only 100 or so. I also remeber her saying early in the night about how some random dude sent her a request and she left it for a week b4 she deleted it just to keep him waiting.

When I first met my gf, she said "we can't do this, you're a horrible influence, I'm nervous, blah blah" and I said "No, you're right, we need to put more clothes on you" and teased her a little, before I stared down into her eyes and said "I know what you're thinking, and it's not gonna happen tonight" and just played around some more, and before you know it, she was on my dick for the next hour. She wants to be spoiled and fucked by a bad boy, and you didn't give it to her.

Why didn't you just address it right then and there while you over heard?

You could've easily acknowledged that you were awake, heard it, and said anything like " You guys know I'm up right? My bad about that " or anything.

Im still a little unsure as to whats going on here.. Did you sleep with the girl thats in question?

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lol. That situation was an expressway, with airplane runway flag wavers gesturing you in, and a rainbow with a shiny pot of gold and choirs singing.


Do you want to be friends only with her? If yes, feel free to send a Facebook FRIEND request like all the other betas who hot women delete/deny on a daily basis on Facebook.


Go to the club a few more times and see if you run into her. You probably will. Game other women in the meantime.

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No i didn't sleep with her that's why i'm so pissed at myself. The lesbian girl i was talking about we met about a year ago. She was standing in the club by herself so i talked to her most of the night and she made it clear that she was gay but she did mention she is into threesomes if there is an opportunity. She is just one of those easy girls to talk to kinda like a guy i think she wanted me to help set her up.

So as i said she was from out of town and so i never really spoke to her on fb that much. I did invite her out the next night but she ignored me on fb. So i left it at that but she did seem to like my fb posts n stuff. So anyway after about 8 months or so she contacted me and said said i'm back in town and heading out next Friday wanna come? and that's how the night started i met her and her friends. I was a lil confused about why she invited me out anyway. Like i said i didn't really know her.

Deep down i think i might have wasted a awesome opportunity with the three of them. I saw the girl that i'm talking about in this post last night we made eye contact on the dance floor for a bit but she looked away so i just moved on but that just could have meant she got shy or anything.Like you guys said i need to grow a pair and learn how to keep going not just give up after she said i'm not that easy. My problem is that i mostly go out alone because all my friends are married with kids or have g/f so yeah i just have to keep pushing and learn from my mistakes if i ever will.

=Lead me to it! (Translated)

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lol!


Dude...why did you not talk to her? You got too anxious again, man.


Going out alone is an advantage! I bet that situation you were in on her bed doesn't happen if you're with some meathead pals.

Stop making excuses and escalate. Take xanax if you have to. Social anxiety is common.

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Congrats. She now realizes you're not the leading type and her boner went limp. For her its onto the next guy willing to lead and escalate.