thanks for the tips guys
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OP - do the above and if she tries to be all friendly and buddy-buddy again with you in real life, give her a cold shoulder. Do not tolerate any bullshit mind games. Show apathy, not love or hate.

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One last thing: i am giving her now a lot of validation every day, even now. How to change this fact without be kicking out?

Why?

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Don't be an emotional tampon.

You've put yourself in the unenviable position of being her emotional crutch.

She's getting something out of the relationship while you're wilting-away because you want more than she's wanting to give.

It's a very one-sided transaction, and the longer you remain in this, the worse u'll feel towards yourself and the longer it will take to get on with your life and find someone actually worthy of your attention.

Thank you!
The End

p.s. in this meaning i wanted only the respect from her that i`ve got before - now i see it`s not possible

Friendzone is just another name for rejected as any form of potential partner. I get that you can't be "unrejected", but girls can accept you as a fuckbuddy/gf later down the line.

R.C. made that point. I hear what you're saying but the reason guys like the OP can't stay in the friendzone is because he won't accept it and move on. He will try to come up with a master plan that will have her "want him" which takes an extraordinary amount of time. OP isn't at the point of accepting friendship at this time. He needs to get the fuck out of there. He can definitely come back down the road but he can't pull the same shit he pulled that he got into a friend situation in the first place.

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You need to try to make her jealous. She knows that you will do everything for her and treat you like a friend enjoying the fact that you are in love with her but it seems to her that you are not enough good for her as her man. Though I am sure that if she sees that some other girl likes you and you pays attention to the other girl instead of her she would be crazy willing to make you love only her again. Ignore her for some time, she must see that you can live without her( even if not).

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She's not fucking you because you're her friend.... She's not fucking you because you're pathetic. These friends zone threads are never from the guy who has options. You ignore her...best case scenario is she misses your friendship and reaches out. But she still won't be attracted to you. You still won't be sexy to her. She knows how desperate you are...she's seen the way other women react to you. And she's not interested. Freezing her out isn't going to somehow make her think you get chicks. If you're gonna be a desperate guy be a desperate guy...be her friend. If you're gonna stop being desperate focus on improving your dating life in general.

i see..thank you guys i will try everything to get heck out of this situation even that i feel something

These guys are right ! I was in a similar situation, I was heart broken and friend zoned.. it´s an irony.. If you want to have a chance, you need to forget about her completely and move on. But if you do that, then you will loose interest. It´s more like a paradox. Trust me dude, you are going to be all right. You don´t know how thankful I am to this bitch, if it wasn´t for her. I would still be the same lame ass kissing needy wussy. I have worked my ass hard to improve and I´m seeing results..

Change your state of mind, instead of thinking "Where am I going to find a girl like this?"

Think "There are a million chances of finding a better girl than her If I work hard."

Well it`s been 2-3 weeks since i am ignoring her - we didn`t see each other and nothing. Now she start texting me first, even today she told me that something is happening to me - i behave badly.
Is it a shit test and should i take it seriously?