Long time no see, but this history I wanted to share. I met a hb9 on tinder, curiously she knew my mom so it was pretty easy to setup a date we went to a cool sushi. Got there 10 pm had a great time till midnight, I dropped her home. Got many kisses and she was fondling my hair the whole drive back.

We exchanged sms during the week and I called her once. The whole time the conversation flew without hickups. As I was going to watch the olympics instead of seing her on the weekend we decided to meet thursday. SOmething went broken on this second meeting.

As police was on strike we decided to watch a movie at her place. Scheduled time was 9:30 PM got there on time and she does not pick the phone as I'm about to head home she calls me back and says:"Hey I'm late and naked! Need to dress up, go to a gas station and we meet in a bit"
I headed to the nearest gas station and in about 10 minutes she called me to come. Getting there, she was with her doomed dog, which really did not like me. Still she seemed happy and open, we kissed and headed to the appartment.

As I've just sat down her phone rang from work, she is a nurse and it seems one of the patients she takes care had problems with a bandage. She was on the phone for about 45 minutes discussing with the colleagues which where unable to remake the bandage. She says she has to go back to the hospital to fix that and is not sure how long it is gonna take.

We left, of course I was pissed of but played cool. Went to a friends house and got some laughts about
my bad luck. Friday comes and I travel I was at rio olympics. From there Ive sent her some minor pics on whats app. A pick from the airport, one from my friends dog and one of me near the olympic rings
at the village. No reply. I came back home tuesday and called her wednesday no reply. As I knew she worked wednesday nights I did not care much, as thursday came with no reply I knew something was wrong.

As I had her as friend on facebook I messaged her for a hello wich I know she read and never answered. I waited one more day and deleted facebook and instagram contacts. But I'm clueless. I know she is online and read the message but did not reply.

Ideas? Btw Im not interested on plans and advices to win her back I just wonder about what did happen

Sometimes it happens man, it's outta your control. Maybe she met someone else, maybe she saw a little spinach in your teeth.

The bottom line is she is evidently ignoring you.

This keeps happening to me recently. Been having great 1st dates but then the 2nd meet she just flakes. I am tempted to make a rule for myself that I will delete her number if she doesn't put out on the 1st meet. SNL or nothing at all.

The worst thing you an do is contact her, take a step back make her miss you (if there is something there) and chase other girls in the meantime.

It's obvious you are being needy.

No text, so you called her. No reply, so you facebook'd her, this is needy and not gonna help at all.

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Dragula I do agree she is ignoring me. I only facebooked as she mentioned before her handy was with problems with SPAM so I decided to call got mailbox. After I facebooked saw the message marked as read and got no reply I deleted all contacts. So not the case of being needy but naive as I did not expect cold turkey.

I'm going out with another girl today so life keeps as usual but I'm intrigued by her reaction. Not interested in comming back at all after being ignored. A female friend of mine mentioned she might try to keep me on the freezer and show up if alone . This is something I'm curious to see if happens.

What Dragula said. Shit happens. It sounds like you had a relatively good couple dates. You played things cool. Maybe she doesn't like your skin tone. Maybe there's someone else who took up her time that day. Certain things are just out of your control. I don't think it was necessary to delete her - just ignore until she comes back to you. It's not personal.

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Eddie I do agree. My post was more of a wind off. Life goes on.

Still it bothers, fortunately it happened early and no kittens where injuried on this experience