Dear MPUAs,

I would personally prefer genuine answers from more experienced guys and I'm in this for the long run. How long does it take to get good at this skillset? What were your limiting beliefs and how did you overcome them? What was a turning point that made you excel at this? And does the game really start off well initially and then it get's tougher as you get good at this? Or is that just a bullshit claim?

P.S. Genuine answers please, guys of all levels welcome to pitch in but I'd appreciate if you could let me know how long you've been at this for too.

BSN.

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Takes as long as it needs to take and I I am constantly learning new things. There is no ceiling to this 'skill'

But for me...it took me about 4 years till I was happy with my love life.

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it takes longer then you would like,but less then you deserve,depends on how willing you are

I always break it down to physical weight loss..

This all depends on where you currently are socially. This is no blanket response.

Lets say you're 350 pounds (socially) and you want to get down to a lean 170 pounds (socially).. How long does that take and how much more effort will that take versus someone who is currently 210 pounds (socially) that is trying to get down to 170 pounds(socially) ?

Its all about assessing your current social weight class and holding that up to where you want to be. Its a different answer for everyone.

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And then when that guy reaches 170, maybe he wants to pack on some mass. And it's a whole different battle.

The point being, it never stops. These guys who ask how long it takes haven't figured out that "getting good at this" means an entire lifestyle overhaul.