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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 12:46 am 
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So I was playing the question texting game with this HB and we were asking each other a few general questions and I busted out "Which do you prefer giving hand jobs or head" she replied "I knew that one was coming, Hand," kind of a let down but only a slut would admit to like giving BJ's and then she asks me if I prefer one night stands or relationships how do you fellow PUA's suggest I should respond?


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 1:03 am 
Welcome to the forum cricket.

What do YOU want from her? You could either be honest, or you could say the opposite of what you want to get a response, then tell her you want the other one actually. Just play around with it, or completely ignore the question altogether and throw something back at her.


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Ask what type of relationships does she mean. There is FBs, Friends with Benefits, and G/f B/F

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this is what i would say and you could use it as a way of 'not choosing'

its not a preference, it depends of the girl, i mean it could start out as a one night stand yes but if im really interested in a girl and think she has potential then i would be interested in taking it a step further. im not against or afraid of relationships i think theyre great and can help develop ones personality, but its not like im gna go out looking to start a relationship. if a girl is worth it i would make the effort..definetily..however that is rare to find as beauty is a common thing and she must be a person who you actually want to talk to when you wake up in the morning rather than just saying 'ok bye' or whatever.. what do you prefer?

something along those lines anyways..

you kinda show her that you're not clingy by saying that you're not searching for a relationship, that you're 'used' to beauty and can be emotionally interested in a interesting girl..

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I don't know what your goals in the relationship are, so I can't tell you which one you should say, but I do have to make a comment about your frame.
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I busted out "Which do you prefer giving hand jobs or head" she replied "I knew that one was coming, Hand," kind of a let down but only a slut would admit to like giving BJ's
By thinking this way, it comes across in your personality. Personally, I LOVE a girl that loves to give bjs. Not cause I've had too many good ones, but because it shows such sexuality and is such a turn-on. That makes girls feel comfortable telling me that they love giving head. I know, cause I've had a LOT of girls tell me that and it doesn't make them sluts, just means they enjoy sex. Do you think that men who like eating girls out are sluts? Cause if not, then you're being incongruent and you will be more attractive if you change that.

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jus dont answer flasely...tell her what youre lookin for out of it....dont lead her toward a relationship and jus fuck her, id be straight up with her but like trip sound...play with it a bit if u want


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I would text back "I like multi night stands, unless your bad in bed"- and let her chew on that for a while - but ya it depends on what your objectives are.


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take a fucking chance, one nighters baby. You have to risk losing someone...

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I was talking with a buddy of mine the other day. He's married at 7 years, and his sex life is dead. Poor fucker... Err scratch that. Poor married not-getting-any washed up chump.

My personal preference is to have a couple of "regular things" and trade in regularly. I don't particularly like to go looking to dip my wick into as many vaginas as possible. it's too much working getting to f-close (sometimes).

That being said, never get one-itis.

But IMHO getting a regular piece is a good thing so you don't have to work so hard, and confirm your AMOG status. If one babe sez no - no worries, you've got a piece lined up anyway.

ReBachelor out


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I was talking with a buddy of mine the other day. He's married at 7 years, and his sex life is dead. Poor fucker... Err scratch that. Poor married not-getting-any washed up chump.

My personal preference is to have a couple of "regular things" and trade in regularly. I don't particularly like to go looking to dip my wick into as many vaginas as possible. it's too much working getting to f-close (sometimes).

That being said, never get one-itis.

But IMHO getting a regular piece is a good thing so you don't have to work so hard, and confirm your AMOG status. If one babe sez no - no worries, you've got a piece lined up anyway.

ReBachelor out
A lot of married people end up in that same spot. Personally, I don't have that problem, even though I'm married too. I've been with her for over 6 years and we still have a sex life most single guys with multiple FB's can't touch. Plus, we bring others in to join us occasionally.

I am the same way that I'm not looking to dip into as many as humanly possible, but rather look for the quality ones.


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I was talking with a buddy of mine the other day. He's married at 7 years, and his sex life is dead. Poor fucker... Err scratch that. Poor married not-getting-any washed up chump.

My personal preference is to have a couple of "regular things" and trade in regularly. I don't particularly like to go looking to dip my wick into as many vaginas as possible. it's too much working getting to f-close (sometimes).

That being said, never get one-itis.

But IMHO getting a regular piece is a good thing so you don't have to work so hard, and confirm your AMOG status. If one babe sez no - no worries, you've got a piece lined up anyway.

ReBachelor out
A lot of married people end up in that same spot. Personally, I don't have that problem, even though I'm married too. I've been with her for over 6 years and we still have a sex life most single guys with multiple FB's can't touch. Plus, we bring others in to join us occasionally.

I am the same way that I'm not looking to dip into as many as humanly possible, but rather look for the quality ones.
Define quality..... :roll:

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