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That would be great. But I'll go on with a conversation and it's goes well then I do something that kills it, haven't really figured out what yet. So getting numbers and girls isn't my reality yet.
She had troubles packing and she hasn't replied to my last text this morning so I figured I should check in on her to see how it's going. But I'm pretty sure that would be a bad move. Nobody wants to hear that from a stranger..
The point is to not be having endless conversations with a girl. The more you talk to her the less she will inclined to meet you out. Its better for you to end conversations and enjoy things other than women. Once you find that thing and you place it above women, you are displaying nonneedy behaviors and its attractive to a woman.
You shouldn't be checking in on her, for what ? She is on vacation. Let her be on vacation. You should be putting in the work and getting some numbers. I actually spent two weeks off from women, because one, I got sick, 2, I was actually getting a little tired of all the social interactions lately (not because they were bad) but because I wanted to focus more on reading some books, including PUA related books.
I was on a dry spell for two weeks, but I enjoyed it. I watched shows, I played guitar, I went to the gym, I slept, I read PUA related materials, I cleaned my house, I focused on making my work life better....my phone was dry as fuck.
Next thing you know, I decided it was time to get laid and the first night I didn't get any tail but the second night I did. Boom. I'm telling man, you need to detach yourself from the outcome. You are banking too much on this one chick when you should be planting as many little seeds as you can. A gardener doesn't just grow one plant.
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