So I was chatting with this girl on Tinder, we had a great chat. I asked her out, she seemed somewhat hesitant, but she was also out of town at that time. A few days later when she was back I asked her. "Have you been to this new place XXXX?". No answer. I figured she just wasn't interested in meeting up. I let it go, haven't thought about it until today.

Today, 3+ weeks later, she replies. Quite a long answer about the place and whatnot. And ends with "Sorry for the incredibly late reply."

(When you read this, I probably already have answered her. But it's good to ask for future reference.)

I feel like I need to call her a bit on the late reply, at least playfully. For me to wait a long time to reply would just seem passive aggressive and butt hurt. Or should I just act like nothing happened? It's not like I been sitting here waiting for her reply. But I feel if I let her get away with it, without even a comment, it make me look more desperat than calling her on it.

EDIT: I remember now, I think she actually said yes to a date, but flaked because she had to go out of town. (And she did).

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When you realize your six year old self had better game than you, pushing girls in puddles, pulling their hair and giving absolutely zero fucks.

She is free of whoever she was doing at that time, she kept you in the wings, Your up slugger.

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You feel a need to call her out because in your mind you've given too much ground to her, and need to 'regain' it with some sort of a concession on her part. This is your issue, as far as I am concerned, not hers and I think tipping your hat to this with her can end up costing you.

I would explore more the belief you hold that is creating these feelings for you. But that's something you do by yourself, it doesn't involve her - rather its about your own growth as a person moving forward.

I get what you're saying, but I don't. My gut reaction was more like "Cool, she wrote an interesting answer. Let's continue the chat".

But usually I get answers from this forum like: "You're basically saying it's ok for her to treat you this way", "Man up", "She's just wants you as an orbiter" etc, etc. Just wanted to get a second opinion on this one. But it all seems cool then.

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She asked me out after 4 texts. The point goes to Mr. Jablowme.

Update: Tonight that is ...

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In a case like this I'd say something like yeah lol it makes no sense to texr then better to just meet up when's good for u? There was this chick who I messaged online after she looked at my profile or something.. We'd have a good convo and when I went for the number she stopped responding. Thought nothing of it as I was talking to other girls. A week or so later I see her account is closed. I get offline about a week after that. Months later I go back online.. See she's back and looked at my profile. Reinitiated... She said she couldn't remember that we talked and it was prob when she was getting serious with some guy and it didn't work out. We talk abt I go for the number. She's stopped replying. Same thing happens where a few months later I'm back online she's back too.. She views my profile.. I reinitaite because I forgot but then saw the old convo.. She can't remember but wants to talk. I say nah lol... Let's just meet. So she comes over. In a case like this I tend to think if convo isn't working just go for the meet

Good. Easy close if you follow through. She didn't contact you to fix her garbage disposal.

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She came home with me, but massive LMR. Wouldn't even make out. So I just went to sleep. Either she's not that interested or I fucked it up at some stage. She did a lot of compliance tests, I bound to have failed some.

She was cute but not that hot, and slightly annoying. If she texts me I'll give it a second go, othervise leave it be.

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Could be a virgin

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I really don't think so. She seem a bit uncomfortable with her own body. Might be it. But not even make out?

She said "If we do that I will want more.."

Sounds like bullshit to me. I think she just needed a place to crash for the night. She lives a bit from the city.

I find it hard being assertive and going for what I want. I do it, but somehow I feel like I end up needy. When she left she said something like "Too bad you had to win the game last night (we played pool) or I might have given you some pitty sex".

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When you realize your six year old self had better game than you, pushing girls in puddles, pulling their hair and giving absolutely zero fucks.

Doesn't hurt to try again.

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I find using sex as some sort of bargaining chip to gain power is immature and really unattractive. I want a girl that's comfortable with her sexuality, enjoys it and knows she has more to offer then just sex.

So right now, I don't feel very inclined to try again.

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When you realize your six year old self had better game than you, pushing girls in puddles, pulling their hair and giving absolutely zero fucks.

Agree with her, jump off, flip on the TV create distance. Tell her you don't know if she's your type.

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Pretty much what I did. I stopped, shut of the lights and got comfortable for sleeping. And she said "Are you pouting." and I said very honestly "haha, no I'm not, I get it. Just tired, go to sleep now". She kept kind of kicking me with her foot as we went to sleep.

Whatever. Case closed.

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When you realize your six year old self had better game than you, pushing girls in puddles, pulling their hair and giving absolutely zero fucks.

She wanted you to try again.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.