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So you are content with just sitting there waiting for something to magically happen? If you want something, go and get it. Us men might be the chosen ones, but women choose those who are willing to take the initiative.
These are the guys who fault women because they aren't knocking down their door to hangout. So rather than take responsilbity and make changes in their lives, they just so rather find reasons to not pursue.
Exactly. Men acting like women isn't going to work. Once in awhile they might get that lucky break and a girl will open them, but it's silly. Why wait for something to happen ? It's like when I go to the clubs and watch these physically well
fit dudes just think that their muscles will bring them all the pussy. Unless these girls know you through mutual friends they will not open you. I've watched these guys and they just sip on their little drinks and think standing at some corner will make girls come up to them. Doesn't work that way buddy. There's like 5 dudes like you in here and girls are dancing their asses off. They ain't worried about you like that .
Haha I WAS that guy. And when it didn't 'happen' I begrudged them. What happened? I grew up, and grew a pair and realized the multitude of options I can have by just opening my mouth and saying hello. But beyond that, doing some core work and experience what self-acceptance truly is.
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