She gave the enough interest keep around. Now show her keeping price is no more interest it became a gentle fuck.

P.s. for the record, op you are fucking doormat. Format yourself. Try to fuck her when you meet again. If she refuses then cut the fucking crap and move the fuck on.

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Carpe Diem, Dolce Vita...

Psychal power comes through Mental strenght.

Just trying to help you ring your own bell here Bro.

So what do you do?

Bang theses as often as the opportunity arises. Ask her for a picture of her boobs, and to feed your goldfish or mow your lawn when you are out of town. Exchange Xmas cards, wave over the fence, That's it. That's what friends do.

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I'm agreeing with Neo here. It's even secretly "hoping" that she would return the romantic interest. You will settle for less, or in other words the friendship, because you have for six years. You want more though. That's simply not healthy for you. As long as you want more from her, whether she is aware or not, you cannot be in a friendship with her that is fair to both parties. You're waiting for that sign of being able to escalate. Your best move is to either come to grips with the fact that you two will remain only friend besides maybe the occasional rebound off these guys she is dating or you have to distance yourself. Your expectation that you can win her over by staying around is not a good mindset. Either see her as a friend, or admit your feelings to yourself and realize she has already wasted years of your life not being more than friends and it's unlikely to change now.

Take note that it is your own health you are considering and not whether or not being an asshole or distancing yourself will make her want you suddenly.

This is all horrible. You want her to like you, but she doesn't. You're too scared to act on your attraction because you don't want to lose her once it's out there. Since you are pretending that you want to always be there for her kids, just give up on her until you find that special girl that will cause you to drop your six year friendship and her kids in a heartbeat.

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This is what happens when you lack self-acceptance at your core, you cling to others.

Well, yes. If you are only okay with being strictly friends and nothing more. But it seems like you are not.

Just forget about her as a love interest. Let her go.

We've had some gibberish here while you've been gone...but I've truly missed the mastery of yours.

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It's like trying to read a message in braille, that says 'do not touch'.

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Cheers for the advice

Yeah your right. I guess im trying to see a friendship as something more than it actually is. Thanks for your advice

Really valuable advice, thank you. I have got to come to terms with the fact its one or the other.Your right Its really not healthy.

She knows how I felt, and how I feel. Ive been up front to her about that. Im not pretending I want to be there, I do.

Yeah. The sad thing is that before her, I was really confident, and had one of my friends come to me in this situation I would probably think the same. But this is why ive come on here to hear things like this, so thank you.

Thanks for the advice. Yeah its definately a decision I need to make.

HAHA. love it.